SOME men say they like the chase...but then when we make u work for it, u lose interest and go running to the chic that gives it up quick.....what are we suppose to do???
2006-11-14 00:42:07 · 19 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
depends. i think if the time is right go for no matter if its the first date or the tenth. if we in the club and i dont know you and you whisper in my ear lets go do it then that may be a little fast. you gotta at least buy me a drink. lol. you know that monster go buck wit that long island in it
2006-11-14 04:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by HUSTLER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are dating the wrong type of guys. Obviously the guy only wants sex if he stops seeing you to go get with some other woman so he get some.
...and in response to what MrBlockwhatever said not all women play games. Some chicks just hold out for a little bit just find out how interested you are in them. A lot men play games too. Some guys will make it seem like they are truly interested in a relationship with you just so they can get some and that is absolutely ridiculous. You claim that guys are very simple and don't want the chase...how about you be honest about what you truly want instead of being phony.
2006-11-14 08:50:06 · answer #2 · answered by KokoCutie272006 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why all the games? One of the things I found most frustrating before I was married and that my single friends find frustrating now is that women play too many games. Guys are simple; easy to predict. If women would be more straightforward, they wouldn't need to ask questions like this one.
"the chase"? "work for it"? "gives it up quick"? These are all things there should be no need to talk about, and NO guy would EVER think this way.
Here's my advice... Only start with high-quality men that you find in a high-quality place. No bars. Get friends you admire and trust to set you up (because it will be with a good person). Then, GIVE HIM A CHANCE! Stop demanding instant magic. Finally, if you like the guy, tell him - and then invest in him. If you don't like the guy, tell him - and then leave him alone.
2006-11-14 08:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by MrBlockHaus 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
My man is currently sleeping but I asked him the same question, and he said that a lot of women are giving it up really easy. He said that men of today are SPOILED because they are so used to getting it quick and easy that they've forgotten how to work for it and treat a woman the way a woman should be treated. (Like a Queen of course! Right ladies?) He says that no matter what happens, make him work for it, make him treat you right before anything else. It may take awhile to get the guy but he'll respect you, treat you right, love you more and take you seriously. Besides, guys Im friends with admitted that they never treat a girl right or seriously if they gave it really fast. So ladies, if you wanna be treated like a queen, act like queen...
2006-11-14 08:54:04 · answer #4 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
what in the crap?? seriously people.. woman giving it up easy means they shouldn't be with a guy for long term?? what if a woman gives it up easy b/c she wants to get laid just as much as the guy?? seriously?? i kind of thought we were over this day of woman are sluts if they sleep around.. i mean really.. this makes no good sense to me.
woman have a hard time finding relationships..just as guys, but that doesn't mean ar ehuman instinct for sexual needs goes away..
i'm not saying give it up to every guy you meet in hopes that he'll be mr. right..but if you're connecting at a club and want to go home together that's alright..and if it ends up going further into a relationship rock on..
giving up sex does not necessarily mean you'll find a guy or won't find a guy who will treat you right..
2006-11-15 11:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Holly crap, a intellegent question for a change!!! to be honest, women are starting to give it up to easily these day adn i think the real women are the women who make their man wait. if he hasnt lost interest in you, then maybe its a big *** sign saying that he is into you. if you give it up too soon, he simply lapel you as a slut and leave at a drop of a hat. trust me, i am a guy, i've seen things like this happen all the time.
2006-11-14 08:56:55 · answer #6 · answered by Oliver 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No honey, women aren't giving it up easy enough! I personally am one of those guys that hate the chase...if you make me work for it I will give up REAL quick..I just don't have the patience for games. If you want me to stick around, the best way is to give me sex. Contrary to popular belief, not every guy wants to "hit it and quit it".
2006-11-14 08:49:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
some females do give it up to easy but the classy ones make u chase for it and i respect classy women way more than the easy ones.
2006-11-14 09:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
y'all COULD stop ignoring the guy that takes half the first verse of a song to ask if you want to dance. but because he is not built like a linebacker or rich like trump, I guess he's not your "type" even though he knows more about seduction that the jocks or rich bums.
but I'm not bitter, no, I'm never bitter!
2006-11-14 08:55:59 · answer #9 · answered by fullmoonwolf4real 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes they go running after that chic who gives it up quick but leaves her after he gets it and goes back to the one who is hard to get.They rarely stay with the easy ones.
2006-11-14 08:52:13 · answer #10 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋