2006-11-14 00:34:22 · 21 answers · asked by silverjet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! As long as you have a strong bond and true love, sex is just an added bonus.
2006-11-14 00:37:26 · answer #1 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
No! Premarital sex is un-necessary. The rest of the world will scream out that it is, and that you need to "give him/her a test drive".
They're wrong!
Sex is a beautiful thing, and should be saved for after marriage. Think about it this way, if you value your virginity, you wouldn't want to lose it to some stranger, right? Well, what if you break up with your boyfriend or whoever it is that you're in a relationship with? Then he leaves, taking your virginity with him.
But, if you wait and give your husband/wife your virginity, then it's not really going anywhere. Plus, I can guarantee that they will value it much, much more than anyone else will. Especially if they, too, are a virgin.
2006-11-14 08:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Gooplesquirch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not necessary, but it is enjoyable......but only in a serious relationship would I do it, with the person I would like to see as my life partner. Having meaningless sex with someone is degrading and selfish. People get hurt. What do you call a success full relationship. There is a balance to be maintained in life and compassion towards others is the basis of morality. Something this world of to days is severely lacking. Everything is based on self gratification.
2006-11-14 08:43:14 · answer #3 · answered by Regi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What works for the goose doesn't necessarily work for the gander.
Have sex only and ONLY when you are truly ready and comfortable with it. Let no ONE force you into doing what you're not down with as if you give in after pressure, there's a high chance that the person may not end up marrying you.
A man's meat may be another man's poison. If you want it, have it. If not, keep it zipped.
2006-11-14 08:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
silverjet it is a big NO, sex has consequences and you must be ready for those consequences before you go into it.Babies, financial responsibilties,STDs,emotional ties just to name a few.I know you might be thinking contraceptives or abortions but contraceptives fail and may damage your system to hinder pregnancy when you get married. Abortion is simply murder of an innocent baby.True love would not demand sex it will wait for the right time,be wise,there is a right time for sex,after marriage.
2006-11-14 08:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by do da right 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it strengthens the bond (or could weaken it in some cases) sometimes but its not necessary. (Sex, in all reality takes time. It takes time to know exactly what to do, how he/she likes it, and it gets better with practice and time.)
Anyway, love, compromise, understanding, honesty and faithfulness, I think are things NEEDED for a successful relationship.
2006-11-14 08:44:08 · answer #6 · answered by stormsandblues 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course not. If your partner makes you feel like you have to have sex for the relationship to work, then maybe you shouldn't stay with them. Sex is something you should do when you think it's right, not when you think you have to.
2006-11-14 08:41:41 · answer #7 · answered by chevygirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it would cause great strain on the relationship if there wasn't any, unless you are an abnormal couple or have great willpower.
And anyway, wouldn't you prefer to know whether he was bad in bed before you married him?
2006-11-14 09:02:36 · answer #8 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. I think that you get to respect and love your partner for things other than sex first. I know eveyone's going to say 'but when you get married, what if you're not sexually compatible?'... would you rather marry the nice polite man with money who respects you and to whom you love (but he's bad in bed) or that hobo who happens to be good in bed. I am really sick of that. Sex isn't everything, yes it's important, but it isn't EVERYTHING. there is more to life...
2006-11-14 08:38:34 · answer #9 · answered by mmmb 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends on the personaities and on the priorities thay draw in the relationship. Every single one is different and unique.
2006-11-14 08:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by Salita 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No it is not. If u love them then why do u have to have sex with them first
2006-11-14 09:49:59 · answer #11 · answered by Ariel S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋