my boyfriends ex girlfriend came to town this weekend.she came to visit my bf..and she didnt know i was there...and he was like well...my girlfriends here..and she flipped the whole time that she was in town...she kept calling and coming over....and he tried to tell her that he wasnt interested....but she wont leave it alone...should i let him deal with it..or should i take so action my self?
2006-11-14 00:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by *~Angel_Eyes~* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would let him deal with it. That will show him that you trust him. I think that he would be flattered if you did step in because it would show him that you don't want anyone trying to take him away. But still, I really think that he would appreciate it more if you let him handle it.
2006-11-14 00:38:43 · answer #1 · answered by Snow 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him do his best. If she's extremely annoying, try to help him if he seems to need it himself. As the matter of fact, if a guy doesn't want a girl around, he will certainly guarantee that she isn't. Give him some time.
2006-11-14 08:37:07 · answer #2 · answered by Salita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's the man, and she's from his past, it sounds like he's dealing with it... it might not seem to be working, but we all know there are some ex gfs out there who are crazy... this is something he needs to take care of.. if you overstep him with this, then he might feel you do not trust him, and how will you know then if he would have gotten rid of her if you take charge?! let him do this, i bet he is just as annoyed/angry with this as you are, maybe more... let him show you how much you mean to him, and how no girl, no matter who she is, is not worth anything compaired to you, his priceless geam and angel!
i know it will take much patience, but it will work out...
2006-11-14 08:38:39 · answer #3 · answered by lily 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends , if shes crazy enough to come knowing you are his GF then shes is crazy enough to do other stupid things. BEWARE of the crazy woman dont get envolved unless she tries to hurt your BF then TAKE ACTION!!! Remember shes crazy!
2006-11-14 08:38:43 · answer #4 · answered by kedra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cant keep her away then definitely step up but first give him the opportunity to do so first if she still is persistent then let her now you are here to stay
2006-11-14 08:40:37 · answer #5 · answered by dodgerchik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him deal with her....she's way too attached and he has to deal and continue to tell her he's not interested...
and if she's in town for now, she will go home...
good luck....be well
2006-11-14 08:51:06 · answer #6 · answered by Babsygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should take action yourself and tell her to butt out of your relationship as your with him now not her.
2006-11-14 08:37:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take action, hes your man, not hers
2006-11-14 08:37:06 · answer #8 · answered by Grant C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him deal with it.
2006-11-14 08:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and beat her up.
2006-11-14 08:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by Yasmin H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋