Most of the good girls that I meet and know of are rather shy and reserved. On the other hand, those girls that are wild are lively, but they don't make potential mates. It's so difficult to find someone that has both qualities.
2006-11-14 00:33:37 · 11 answers · asked by Ricardo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Recardo,
You will get a girl of your choice but before that you will have to ask the same question to you....do you have both the qualities you are looking for into your prospective mate? If yes, you will get one and if not, it would be very difficult.
Moreover, why we men always try to chose? Do you know that the shy ones are reserved today. Because they are shy. Because they are beautiful inside, because they are trustworthy but apprehensive of you at the intitial stage of contact. Do you know that the shy ones could become best mates (sorry that does not mean that the wild ones could not). Do you have the idea that are you simply looking for sex or the other bundle of qualities which a woman has inside and outside? If it is only the sex you talk, then you will find plenty who are wild and lively. But if you are talking love (of course sex comes atutomatically later on when the relationship matures), then you will have to chose from the shy and reserved ones. Shy girls and the reserved ones are when yours, only yours, see sincerity and love in your eyes and arms, she could be much wilder and lively than you would have expected. But you will have to be on the same boat also. And mind you, you need a lot of guts to get a shy and reserved girl because she herself has an image of his dream man. That image, which we most of the men never have. That image she is after, which is full of manhood, love, respect, personality, qualifications and security.
Well Recardo, your question is very honest, you are an honest person at least. Hence, I know you will get your dream mate once but you will have to streamline your priorities. If you put shyness, lively and wild in this priority, you could be successful and if you will keep your priority of Wildness, Lively and Shy, sorry, you wont be successful.
2006-11-14 01:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. friend 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am both, it depends on which situation I am in. It's good to know when to be lively, and when to be reserved. If you can strike the right balance then that must be good, though I am yet to find a guy who fully appreciates it, lol!! Good luck finding your Miss Right :-)
2006-11-14 00:41:08 · answer #2 · answered by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is a mix i myself am wild and enjoy nights out getting drunk and being a tom boy i love cars and messing about but my boyfriend is quiet reserved and shy but together we bring out the best quality's in each other i bring out his wild side and he keeps me calm and collected its a great combination ya adapt the the situation ya in. opposites attract.
2006-11-14 00:44:50 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo dude i get what u want. U like a wild girl that bring u thrill and excitment. But u are just afraid that they are not loyal to you and u might end up getting hurt. M i right?
2006-11-14 00:36:58 · answer #4 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do get them..just be patient..not blowing my own trumpet but i have been told by a lot of women and men that when they first meet me and see im pretty they expect me to be a right ***** and they realise im the most gentle person they have ever met!!i am crazy too though..but in a good way...dont ever judge any one until you get to know them!!x
2006-11-14 00:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mrs Right?
you will never find her just find one you're happy with and that's all you get! :-(
the only way you can find Mrs Right is to pay her but this will only last for one night. if you no what I mean. LOL
2006-11-14 00:36:43 · answer #6 · answered by kissfromaroes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so not true there are people that have both but you are not looking in right place
2006-11-17 23:27:05 · answer #7 · answered by Eng.F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not a question
how am i supposed 2 answer it if theres no question?
2006-11-14 00:39:38 · answer #8 · answered by Laura S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have both qualities......unfortunatley i cant find a man that appreciates them.Its a hard world :(
2006-11-14 00:39:48 · answer #9 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to worry, have two, then mix and match to suit your mood.....
2006-11-14 00:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by Stevie t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋