2006-11-14 00:24:00 · 11 answers · asked by janky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you are attracting the wrong kind of guy, why are you baiting him towards you? If you have a heart of gold thats fine, but i know exactly what its like to be taken for granted and scewed over for kindness....and it reallly stings the most when you give without hesitation, to help or offer anything you may have to only to have that someone use it against you. It really leaves a person bitter. and remember not all the world sees you the way you see yourself in the mirror.
Beauty is skin deep.....But Ugly goes to the bone.
If you want complete dedication from a man...find an ugly one.. you will see for once what true beauty is...for an ugly man to be with a pretty woman who only has eyes for him...He will treat her as a Goddess...not only that but it makes all the Ken Dolls go insane. Unlike the HollyWood style you seek, who only use you and then screw around on you with your so called betterlooking girlfriend, your ugly man will be far more use to you than the handsome jack....they even go to great lengths to make you satisfied in every way and at any time...lol and if you dont believe me , Just ask my wife. Take care...you will know when you find the right one.
2006-11-14 00:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by madeawareofyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have heard and read this before. First of all I have no idea of where you socialize. If you go to bars and nightclubs this is the worst place in the world to find someone to develop a relationship. If you do go to these places go just to enjoy the evening and not to try to find someone to develop a relationship. Everyone I have talked to who met someone at a bar tells me of how things never worked out. Those people most of the time have little character, no morals, no ethics and most of all they just do not care for anyone but themselves. They are totally self centered. First of all it sounds like you are a very genuine person who deserves more from life than what you are receiving. First you need to develop higher standards for yourself. You don't want to go out with a guy just because of his outward appearance. Most of the times men and women both who are very attractive normally have hard times in long term relationships because they think that no matter what happens there is always someone to fill that spot. Find someone who has high moral standards, someone who cares about his fellow man, someone who is kind, someone who is giving and most of all someone who will be by your side until your last dieing breath. I know someone like this is extremely hard to find, but they are out there. What I would suggest is that you pray and I promise you "God" will put the right person in your life, and you will be so happy when he does. You must trust and believe in God and he will take care of finding you a lifetime mate.
2006-11-14 00:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by Rooster 1972 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably attracting the right guys too. You're just noticing the bad ones. If you stop and look back, I bet there's a few good ones you past up for one reason or another. You need to be more aware of the people around you. And the choices you're making.
2006-11-14 00:36:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know; i do the same thing.
it guess its just bad luck.
always falling for the bad boy;
i know its hard not to.
opposites attract, after all.
but you just have to tell yourself
'No.' It's going to be hard, but if
you know what the guy is truely
like, you have to stay away as
to save yourself from trouble.
one day, you will meet a nice,
good guy-- just wait and see!
goodluck with things! :]
2006-11-14 00:35:52 · answer #4 · answered by sweet.heart_xoxo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bad boys and nice girls always seem to attract each other. That makes nice guys very sad.
2006-11-14 00:26:16 · answer #5 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to wait for the right guy. don't take the one that likes you just because the way you look. It also counts on whats on the inside. and if you cant find one come to me!
2006-11-14 00:26:59 · answer #6 · answered by matt d 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Learn how to say no. If you are that attractive you can afford to be choosy.
2006-11-14 00:26:18 · answer #7 · answered by domangelo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Madeaware, what a great answer. Thank you, I have taken your advise as well.
2006-11-14 02:04:30 · answer #8 · answered by Dewy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are you meeting this guys? What do you think you can do different?
2006-11-14 00:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by czekoskwigel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it just happens..just be careful.
*ahem* and maybe some humble pie woudn't hurt....*cough*
2006-11-14 00:27:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋