Please help me.I broke up with my boyfriend yesterday we were together for one and a half year.It was perfect until yesterday when he told me not to call him anymore.When i asked why, he told me that he likes me but HE DONT LOVE ME ANYMORE.The same day we were out 3 hours earlyer and everything was just fine, we drink a coffe play a pool and do the stuffs we do usualy.What's wrong with him, we did have a fights before and he used told me the same "Don't call me anymore" but this time he told me that he don't wana be with me (he did this on the phone).I am very sad, and i know that i didn't do anything and he didn't give me the reason why we broke up.So should i call him or wait for him to call me.WHat if he doesen't call?SHold i call him and tell him that we need to go out for a walk and talk about the situation?HELP :((
2006-11-14 00:13:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know the hard thing is no explanation and no closure to the relationship but you got to respect him for being honest with you. Because after all he could have played you and kept you hanging on but he just came right out and told you. And while he still deserves his jack*** of the year award you need to go out with friends and have fun. Don't sit around and wait for him because one thing is for sure if he really loved you and it was meant to be he'll come back again. But funny thing may happen you may not want him. Good Luck!
2006-11-14 00:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T TALK TO HIM ANY LONGER. HE HAS SOMEONE ELSE. THE SAME THING HAPPEN TO ME. DON'T BE SAD. HOLD YOUR HEAD UP AND GO ON IT'S NOT EASY BUT YOU CAN DO IT. LOVE YOUR SELF. REMEMBER YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG ,AND THERE IS NOTHING WITH YOU. TAKE TIME FOR YOUR SELF BEFORE YOU GET INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.WHEN YOU START THINKING ABOUT HIM AND GETTING SAD, GET UP GET YOU SOME MUSIC GOING MAKE YOU A GOOD CUP OF COFFEE, WASH YOUR YOU FACE , AND START DOING HOUSE WORK . THAT WILL GET YOUR MIND OFF HIM. GOOD LUCK, IT;S NOT EASY , BUT YOU CAN DO IT. WE GET IT A RUT THINKING WE NEED THAT PERSON BECAUSE WE BEEN SO LONG AND WE GET COMFORTABLE ,AND ALSO WE FEAR OF STARTING OVER. .HAVE A NICE DAY. SHIRLEY BROWN. FROM TATUM, TEXAS
2006-11-14 00:33:38 · answer #2 · answered by shirley b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is apparently going through some changes.. let him go.. if he don't know what he wants out of life.. you will never have a secure relationship with him.. A guy that can't tell you in person that he don't want to go out with you anymore and don't want to talk.. you don't need them.. sure sign of a failing relationship.. move on.. you don't need that kind of crap..
find someone that knows what they want and be happy.
2006-11-14 00:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you hurt his feelings and ego? For a couple to stay committed there must be talk and communication. So was there this kind of talk about what you expect of him and how u want hime to treat you as a lady? Have you ever thought about what you have done for him? Seriously, both of you must clear this doubts and problems and face the truth...
2006-11-14 00:19:32 · answer #4 · answered by chrystalhow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, people do fall out of love and this is what has happened with him. You can't get him back by calling him. Understand that he doesn't want to talk to you. If you leave him alone, he may realize that he misses you and wants you back, but on the other hand, he may not. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you. You may be content, but he won't be happy, and you don't want that either.
2006-11-14 00:24:54 · answer #5 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly, talk to him and find out why the sudden disinterest. He owes it to you to give you a decent explanation afterall, that is what a relationship entails.
Whatever the case might be, you should also try moving on as it seems that he might be over you.
2006-11-14 00:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just follow one rule whole ur life ---- if a person u love want to go away, allow him to leave... if he comes back, then only god has chosen him for u... if he doesnt, then u shud be happy that god has something better in store for u... u just have to wait...
hope my advice wud help u... :)))
2006-11-14 00:25:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him and dont call him. Ignore him your gonna have to move on. When a guy says dont call him it means dont call him.
2006-11-14 00:19:56 · answer #8 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be with you, so just leave him alone. if he wants to talk to you he will call you. Don't call him, let him think about it!
2006-11-14 00:17:17 · answer #9 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are you? i'll kick it to you and help you forget about him
2006-11-14 00:18:19 · answer #10 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋