I dont want to be alone forever...
I dont believe in real love anymore...
There are no guys out there who would never cheat, who wouldnt lie, or who wouldnt make me cry.
So whats wrong with staying with an okay guy and just getting some on the side, nothing is real anyway!!!
2006-11-13 23:59:02 · 18 answers · asked by plenymo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting bitter experience in the love relationship makes you understang how precious is the good side of romance. Men's nature has a code in it that makes them cheat or whatever. Female dilemma is to make a man stick around without verbally prohibiting love affairs on the side, that's the phsychological difficulty that is easily delt by smart women, which I strongly believe you are :-)
2006-11-14 00:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Salita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I beg to differ...there are good men out there they are just hard to find. Patience is a virtue.....There is nothing wrong with staying with an "okay" guy if you want to settle for less than what you are worth. Why lower your standards because "you" don't think you can get the man of your dreams?
Most people don't want to be alone for the rest of their lives but they end up with a man that they normally wouldn't be with just to be somewhat happy.And then they wonder why he is cheating or the marriage doesn't work.
Don't settle for less than what you are worth...if you want that man that opens doors for you, pays for your dinner, tells you he love you everyday...then wait for him...He's there you just have to find him...
And by the way.....Real love does exist!
2006-11-14 08:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by Teena R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you keep on thinking you don't believe in real love you won't find the right guy. you have to keep on believing it. Well, us girls we tend to fall for jerks at first, and I mean most girls, some are lucky, their first love is the one for them, but yeah most girls tend to fall for jerks, then they'll end up with a good guy, I fell for jerks, then I finally found a great guy, and I married him. Now I'm happily married.
Just don't rush into a relationship with every guy you talk to, talk to them first, and get to know them better, and you'll eventually find the right one. Let the relationship happen naturally, rather than forced into it.
2006-11-14 08:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by superboredom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually i am one of those guys! I got the same negative image about girls all the time. Time after time they proved that i couldn't trust them. When i finally had enough of it i told all my friends i am staying single. A few days later i talked to someone whom i would eventually be engaged to and be happy with. From the first time we talked a few weeks passed and we got together. Just keep looking. Guys get discouraged too.
2006-11-14 08:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Now you have an ok guy and you want to cheat? After saying there are no guys out there that wouldn't cheat? Isn't that like the pot calling the kettle black? Are you trying to find an excuse for your in the future cheating?
2006-11-14 08:12:46 · answer #5 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
"Joel P" gave you an honest answer.
Firstly, look inside yourself what exactly went wrong in earlier relationships. You may find you were at fault, as well including him.
All the guys are definitely not same, although I may agree that majority of them falls into the category you mentioned.
Just keep trying honestly with positive attitude and you may find the one you are looking for.
Best of luck.
2006-11-14 08:08:24 · answer #6 · answered by GS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with that. Just make sure u protect urself at all times and make sure u put yourself before anyone else. Its not selfish. Its the only way to take care of u because otherwise, no one else would.
2006-11-14 08:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by ☆The-Siren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking for someone. That seems to be when a good one comes along. Go out and have fun with your friends, enjoy the life you have without searching for someone to share it with. Join clubs that interest you, help your community in projects, get out there. Most important- Don't date down. Look for qualities that you want and don't settle for a "fixer upper".
2006-11-14 08:11:39 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda208 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Looks like all u need is a really honest guy that will not cheat on u. Try to find a guy that likes u for u.
2006-11-14 08:03:15 · answer #9 · answered by da man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you cant think negative or you get negative results. be positive, stay that way, but dont look for anyone. one day you'll meet a guy, you'll hang out and become good friends youll know each other inside and out and maybe that friendship will become more. who knows. but dont look for it it will find you when the time is right. love hurts, life sucks, then you die. get over it.
2006-11-14 08:12:46 · answer #10 · answered by .......... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋