just asking whether money is a important factor when a gal choose a boyfriend?
2006-11-13 23:57:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, we look at it and consider it a lot. Fortunately, there are still girls willing to look away from a guy's financial difficulties. Take note, this happens when a girl is already decided that she loves the guy. Just try to take it slow before confronting the long term issue. That way, she would have seen a lot of good character from you and it would be easier to put the money thing aside. Show her that you can compensate for that with something else :)
2006-11-14 00:08:55 · answer #1 · answered by gloopy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I would think a decent girl would not look so much for money as for potenial! You do want someone who is responsible and has potenial to provide for a good future! Many a women have married men who were dirt poor in the beginning(students or up and coming business men) and went on to become sucessful!
2006-11-14 00:07:02 · answer #2 · answered by kelley1031 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't speak for others, but I think at the very least, I considered their potential for money.
It was a 'what if' situation for me. "What if" we get married? Will I have to work? Will I be able to stay home with the kids?
In the long run, it always came down to how I felt about the man that actually made up my mind for me, but the 'what ifs' never went away. And I never based my emotions on the money. I thought of it more along the lines of if I had to work, that was fine, I can do that, but I'd like to stay at home with the kids, if I could.
2006-11-14 00:03:08 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well . . . sort of. I would actually prefer to spend my time earning my own money than with a long-term boyfriend — so much so, in fact, that I don't want a boyfriend at all. My future career is far more important.
2006-11-14 04:45:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need someone who feels the same way you do about money. A "saver" and a "spender" are not going to get along very well for long when issues arise. I think the potential for succeeding is more what women are looking for. If you are on teh same track, then you will be fine.
2006-11-14 00:18:17 · answer #5 · answered by rhonda208 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, that's the way of the world these days. It shouldn't be that way, but it is as far as whats told to me. Understandably, it takes money to do anything and if you haven't got any, you're in big trouble. Realistically speaking, who is to say where love is going to be found. I would hope that love takes precedence otherwise what chance is there for a lasting relationship......
2006-11-14 00:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the amout of money and the girl. but dont really worry about it if she is looking at the money factor and not you she is not the right person.
2006-11-14 00:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by the anwserer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i seek for mature, no longer effortless-working, to blame adult males who appreciate an identical activities or have a number of an identical pastimes as me and have a effortless-going character. I want adult males that like animals and have a robust relationship with their family contributors.
2016-12-14 06:55:00 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not much but a good job gets you a few extra points, a job at all is great!
2006-11-14 00:03:35 · answer #9 · answered by tami_6996 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh u bet it does,,my 26 and 27 yr old sons cant get a date making minamin wage and driving junk cars
2006-11-14 00:01:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋