Fear of commitment? Self-centeredness? Refusal to grow up? What?
2006-11-13 23:44:58 · 19 answers · asked by Dean 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My greatest frustration with most men is that they don't know how to listen. It seems like I say 1 thing & they hear another. Communicating takes a lot of effort!!!
As for fear of commitment, I haven't encountered that in a lot of men. Self-centeredness is more a peeve of mine with any human being and it is just as common with women as it is with men.
The refusal to grow up is one of my favorite things about men! I'm not talking about being irresponsible, but when they like to "play" like little boys and get amused but the littles things. I find this endearing!
2006-11-13 23:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nunya 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's all of those things you mentioned and more for one thing some men like to turn you on and off like a light switch. Then you have those that act as if you don't tell them what to do they won't do anything and the picking up after themselves is really bad. I'm not saying all men are like this but some are and it's frustrating. You know like you come home and he's on the couch watching TV like there's nothing to do and let's not forget the we can live together but I'm not ready to get married yet but in the meantime your the maid,mother, and some other things but that's just to name a few. It would just be nice to have a man that know what needs to be done and he does it without you telling him. It must be wonderful!
2006-11-14 08:02:39 · answer #2 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't have a man to be frustrated over.Unfortunately the one I did have died. He wasn't a frustration, he lived for me. Right now my frustration is more of a disappointment with my life and the way it is. I have created it and I take total blame for it. But I have to cut myself some slack and remember that I am human and therefore I can correct it by changing my outlook and attitude. There is no perfection in this world, least of all when it concerns affairs of the heart, but together two can strive to correct those things if they love one another and work together to make "frustrations" on both parts dealable........
2006-11-14 07:49:55 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
In my opinion, woman will frustrate whether the guy love o not? if she make sure the guy realy love her n she cn go longer with him, i think she wil not fear of commitment. ppl oways fear of commitment because they afraid of be hurt. But if u do not give anythg, where gt return? am i right?
2006-11-14 08:00:54 · answer #4 · answered by Tine t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at present time i would have to say lack of attention and fear of commitment...as for growing up, do men ever grow up?
2006-11-14 08:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They think that they know it all and you have no right to an opinion. sorry can't spell today.
they think that they are always right
they don't grow up ever
they have what i call me me itis.. everything is always what they want.
they think about no ones feelings but there own.
this is just a few
they think that women can't live with out them
2006-11-14 07:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
In a long-term relatioship, that they started taking us for granted. Like we cook, pick up after them, kiss their boo boos, listen to their problems, and do things just for them. All we ask for in return is some thanks and acknowledgement once in a while, to have a willingness to eat more vegetables, to really listen (and comprehend) and give a massage and actually do it right!
2006-11-14 07:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no way I cant stand a guy that wont take no for an answer,it does not matter how much you tell him to rack off but he keeps on going
2006-11-14 07:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by debbie anne 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i was going to say perhaps remembering the little things.. :)
we women like those little things.. like remembering the day we first met.. remembering if we have some place to go..
i dont' know everyoen forgets though :)
2006-11-14 07:49:08 · answer #9 · answered by steph 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
when men talk more and work less, not assisting his woman in the housework....that's what frustrates me.
2006-11-14 07:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by chrisangelia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋