I met this guy online (I know, I know... it is a dangerous out there). We have been chatting for almost 4 mths and then, he said he was in love with me. I've told him that online does not work, it is better to be friends. We both could connect really well. He had showned me a lot of his pictures, pic of his ex, his family member, his band maid (website) and where he works. I have even checked for his online profile consistency and so far, he have not spotted a lie. Then, he said he wanted to come here and make things work for us. He wants to know if I am the settling down type. I said, with the right one yes which he asked for 1 month to sort things out. The next day, he IM me. He had something to tell me but I was sleepy. So, he suggested next day. Then he went offline for 8 weeks and I have not heard from him. His online profile is no longer around. He did not pick up the ecard I sent him. He travels for his sales job antours for his band sometimes. Can he be this busy or ???
2006-11-13 23:34:39 · 10 answers · asked by asianprincess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Online relationships, is just part of the technology era we live in now, there are a lot of weirdos off line too.
Just be careful..
2006-11-15 04:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Intellithug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee you sound like a lonely sad person with a low self esteem. Can't you go out and meet guys for real? If I call you everday on the phone and chat with you and then tell you I love you..and want to settle down what would you think? (he's a nut) most probably..Now ask yourself, a guy with an EX (why)..he's in a band and probably meets tons of women, travels as a saleman (which means he is a good talker) To me this points to disaster. and no he probably isn't that busy he is having a fling with another woman he met..Move one my dear..life is to short to get tangled up in this web..If you can't feel it, touch it, see it, talk to it and draw your own personal conclusions then don't buy it..you can't take this item back..all you can do it give it away..Look for someone else you will be happier Im sure..Just another guy's opinion..Good Luck
2006-11-14 07:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by flashrtp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess you got dumped lady. It was maybe for the best. I don't know what your doing putting faith in a on-line relationship. My own grandson is doing this. He's a heck of a guy but very shy. He's had three bad on-line relationships now. I would forget this business if I were you and get a life, go out there and meet real people. Join a real group through church. AA, some other source.
2006-11-14 07:43:13 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dear don't go after him.its just a online relationship.so
i have also try for it.but its don't work you can only chat
and be good friends.go out and make real friends.if your
single and like to mingle.then go with with your group.you
sure find someone.you bet on it.take care.
2006-11-14 07:56:47 · answer #4 · answered by bobby.k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my guess is that he either had a gf or wife and he got caught talking to you and she made him quite that is what it sounds like to me sorry but that is what i think
2006-11-14 09:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by golfbum68us 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Or he could be in jail. Have to be careful.
2006-11-14 07:38:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he loves you so he will come back
2006-11-14 07:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by h. jani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are alot of weirdos out there
2006-11-14 07:38:42 · answer #8 · answered by NONAME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
simply this...give more time..get a little closer and see..
2006-11-14 07:37:22 · answer #9 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont do it
2006-11-14 07:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by hotfish1995 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋