I HAVE BEEN WITH THIS MAN FOR 10 YEARS AND I AM NO LONGER IN LOVE WITH HIM, BUT HE STILL SEEMS TO BE IN LOVE WITH ME.HOW DO I EXPLAIN TO HIM I DONT WANNA BE in this relationship
2006-11-13 23:26:36 · 12 answers · asked by BEBE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him for whatever your reason to fall short of your love, that u need some time on your own
2006-11-13 23:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you live together you might have to make the first move and it might be a costly one. That being move out if you two are living together. Make a very clean break from this relationship and put some distance between the two of you. If he attempts to discuss possible solutions let him know where you stand and that there is no point. Emphasize to him that you dont want to live a lie, and dont want to lie to him about this. He will be angry and upset but he should respect your honesty either way wether it takes him some time to understand. Good luck!
2006-11-13 23:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BeBe Honey: Together for ten years and you call it a "relationship" at least your honest. What brought this all on?
I can understand "falling out of love" it's happen to a couple of my friends. I've tried to understand where no "other person" was involved. They just fell out of love.
Well Honey, try and be gentle with him, face him and tell him the truth. I know he's not going to understand, he may fall apart, I don't know, you know him better than anyone.
I don't know what happen to bring you to this, another man, just tired, I'm assuming your not married and there's no kids. Good luck
2006-11-13 23:33:51 · answer #3 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have to tell him straight, going on like this with no love from you will be even harder, u gotta sit him down and talk to him about how you feel...there is no point bein in this relationship if you dont love him...u could also get councilling, but thats only if you want that spark back when you met him but if your looking for another man then i suggest you tell him, even though he will be hurt.
2006-11-13 23:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what you want and also give him the reason why u wanna live him.If he loves you truly then h'll definitely leaves u otherwise take the help of your friends.
2006-11-13 23:52:34 · answer #5 · answered by manish52903 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its gonna be hard on him, but i guess he needs to know. i suggest u find time to sit him down and try and help him understand how u feel, dnt tell him by a call or a message coz it could crash him as specially dat he still loves you. goodluck!!
2006-11-13 23:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by phats 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you have to say what you feel,just be sure of what you feel.Not being in love with him any more is pretty clear.
2006-11-13 23:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by punkin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that way you ask the question...... to the point don't try to say it indirectly, just go to the point
2006-11-13 23:30:23 · answer #8 · answered by litos1227 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say the words
2006-11-13 23:31:11 · answer #9 · answered by native,pride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest with him!
2006-11-13 23:29:50 · answer #10 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋