I have a relationship with an older lady and she's been going into a chatroom and hitting on almost everyone. I mean asking them where they live and then saying "That's not far from me" or asking them all kinds of questions. She's flirting like crazy. A friend of mine told me about it and suggested I go to this chatroom and see and sure enough she had her profile looking for this or looking for that in a person. I just spent an entire week with her and she's still looking in this chatroom. The funny thing is when I was with her, she didn't go into that chat at all. How should I approach this. It's really bothering me. IF I go to her and say I know this or that she'll argue and end it. She's not one for arguing and then resolving the issue. Thanks.
2006-11-13 23:19:52 · 11 answers · asked by Patrick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
shes doing this when you're not around could mean that she wants to fill her free times communication with ppl .i dont think its bad until she starts seeing someone in real.Chatrooms are all about people talking and wasting time although it is kind of addiction but dont take them too serious just beacuse of some flirty lines.
2006-11-13 23:35:17 · answer #1 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason she wouldn't want to talk about it is that fact being she knows she is guilty. In this day and age it is best you end it with her. Better you end it now versus finding out she is messing around with another person(s) and brings something back to you, like a STD!!!!! Be honest and forward. Life is too short to be jerked around by dishonest people!
2006-11-13 23:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by jls1znv9999 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to keep a woman like this around you? Do you not care for yourself at all? She is not a good person or trustworthy. Tell her what you know and then let the chips fall where they may. If she leaves you consider yourself lucky you didn't have to do the dirty work yourself, otherwise, if she doesn't leave you, I would leave her if I were you.
2006-11-13 23:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first thing, you are probably blowing this thing way out of proportion. just because she asks them where they live doesnt mean that she is hitting on people. i was on chat with people and asked them where they lived, and i was with my girlfriend, that doesnt mean that im hitting on them. if your friend told you about it then that doesnt mean it is true does it? a lot of my friends told me about my girlfriend that wasnt true. and another thing in her profile where it says what she is looking for in a person, and that she hasnt changed it. maybe she never thought about changing it. i was with my girlfriend, and i never changed my profile and it was talking about what i was looking for in a girl. but i didnt change it because, well i never thought about changing i was mostly paying attention to her, i didnt care about what my profile said. neither did she. so u are definetly blowing this whole thing out of proportion. you dont need to worry about it unless u know for a fact she is cheating on you with some internet guy. and if she is she is not worth ur time. but u need all the facts before u come up with a conclusion. plus one more thing, maybe when she is isnt around you she wants something to do because she is bored so she chats online, and it is normal for a girl to want to spend her time with her bf when he is around.
2006-11-13 23:36:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 09:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must be a "boy toy" for this older lady. In that case, you shouldn't get "freaked" about her other activities. It's just sex...enjoy yourself...get paid...you're not in love.
Been there...
2006-11-13 23:27:35 · answer #6 · answered by clarence_starksiii 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Swith off her computer
2006-11-13 23:24:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call 911 ,maybe it helps.
2006-11-15 20:42:17 · answer #8 · answered by stuart_sheng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
giv me her i.d ..i will try and then let u know.Dont worry..i wont take her away from you.
2006-11-13 23:24:41 · answer #9 · answered by maninsearch 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she is doin this u dont need to b wti her
2006-11-13 23:22:46 · answer #10 · answered by crybaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋