Whats do you think? Good or Bad? If no one finds out?
2006-11-13 23:17:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you know what they say-a little of what you fancy does you good x
2006-11-14 22:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so.If you know that it's something you want and can handle.Alot of other people will not agree with me but I'm an adult and as long as noone is getting hurt then what's the big deal?It shouldn't be a question if anyone finds out or not....people will find out.It's a matter of time and circumstance.The real question is will you be able to deal with your desion when the proverbial s&^t hits the fan?
2006-11-13 23:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by tequillajenny 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are single...it is fine...
If you are in a relationship...No
Having a little sex is fine...but don't drag someone you are supposed to be committed to into it. Listen...if you are single and out having sex..."having a little fun"...that is cool...to each their own. But when you are in a relationship...it isn't just about the sex anymore...and you are not just doing this to yourself...you are literally dragging your boyfriend/girlfriend into it. You have two different things to think about. 1) Your partners feelings...if it was done to you...that would suck...right? 2) Now that you are sleeping with this other person...and they are sleeping with whomever...you have no idea what type of STD's they could be swapping around...and now you are not only endangering yourself...which you have every right to do...but you are also endangering your partner...without their knowledge...How unfair is that? Come on...grow up...if you want to be in a relationship, be in a relationship...if you don't...then brake up with your partner.
2006-11-13 23:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by ladydrea2918 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it cheapens the value of sex, and the friendship. I wouldn't be able to do it because I would become too attached to the guy. But if it works for some then I suppose it's fine for them.
2006-11-14 00:08:09 · answer #4 · answered by little_v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whether people comment or criticise it, people are going to have f*** buddies, no matter the gender but to give it a classy term, i'd like to call it Playmates, what do you think??
If you're married, its not good.
If you're single and a swinger, what the heck?
If you're single and religious, definitely, not good.
If you're single and a nympho.... what the heck?
Or if you're single and a porn star, no probs...
It all depends on what you want. But clearly define the rules. No strings, never do it in your house where he's likely to stalk you and make sure he's STD free.
2006-11-13 23:24:25 · answer #5 · answered by Banana Pie 3 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I had a f**k buddy for two years ended up marrying him
2006-11-13 23:20:48 · answer #6 · answered by scragette2000 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Has them in the past and as long as the parameters are defined from the outset it should work out fine, married now and it would be cheating, unless the wife agreed and watched! What!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-14 00:06:54 · answer #7 · answered by WeirdNA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's ok as long as none of them are in a relationship.. and if any of them get an emotional connection aswel as a sexual one then the sexual part should also stop... But as long as it's not cheating it's fine.
2006-11-14 00:02:01 · answer #8 · answered by Aaron 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tried it once, nice but ruins good friendships and at the end it was not worth it.
2006-11-13 23:22:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Bad idea with the world we are living in today, with all those diseases
2006-11-13 23:22:12 · answer #10 · answered by DEE 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋