u cant be sure he loves u just because he says it!! can u???
2006-11-13 23:13:00 · 18 answers · asked by heleney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Does he really care about you? Does he tell you all his secret? Does he help you to get through your problems? Does he really want to meet you everyday? But you should ask him instead waiting for him to tell you! Good Luck!
2006-11-13 23:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it some time, i believe after a while the truth will unveil itself. there are a lot of decietful men out there looking for innocent girls to decieve and devour. dont give in just because he says he loves you. the word" I LOVE YOU" is probably said a thousand times in a day and only one or two could be real.
first of all dont try to show him you love him if you do that he'll take advantage of you and the next thing you're heart broken. play a little hard to get if he really wants you he'd hang on to you and even if you finally agree to go out with him, dont jump into bed with him immediatey, get to know him. if he just wants sex he'll get impatient and walk away but if he's for real he'll concentrate on making you happy, caring about how you feel, calling you always, buying you gifts if he can afford them,being there for you when you need someone to talk to, he'll be your friend first. perhaps later nature will take its place but you still have to be careful.
2006-11-14 07:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by ugochi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there really isn't a way. i mean, you never really do know what someone is thinking or feeling. he can prove it, but guys have been known to change their mind. and even if he does mean it, just because you love someone doesn't mean you always want to be with them. anyway, it is unhealthy for you to worry about or even think about for this matter. just be free. let go and you will find out. love takes time to understand. if you worry about it, it might consume you and you may become distant, worrying. if it doesn't work out, there are always more people out there. but if you don't let go fully, you will never be able to experience the true joy of love.
2006-11-14 07:19:27 · answer #3 · answered by i-care 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infinite females have asked this question. Here. Everywhere. Through out history. Personally, its hard to believe anyone who says they love you. People throw that term around so loosely so easily. I love you on the phone. I love you in the morning. I love you before going to work. I love you to a friend. You can't tell, just becasue he says it. He shows it through his actions. He shows it through his eyes at unassuming moments. He shows it when he's your wall at your most vulnerable moments. He shows you its unconditional.
2006-11-14 07:21:33 · answer #4 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeap exactly.Doesnt mean he say that word means he love you like crazy.Basically is more on his behaviour and his careness towards you.People can say that word like a thousand times but by meaning what they say makes a lot of difference through their actions.
2006-11-14 07:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by aleeya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't believe it just because he tells you that he loves you. You'll know if he loves you by the way he acts toward you, and how he treats you. Follow your instincts, you'll know when it's really love. You won't have any doubts about him, or yourself.
2006-11-14 07:16:26 · answer #6 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's why trust is at the foundation of any good, solid relationship. It's a choice you're going to have to make. And yes, at some point you will have to take him, or someone, on their word.
2006-11-14 07:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned that in Love, there is no sure thing...... you just give and give and always think of things that make your beloved happy...
But one sure way to know is in his eyes, the tone of his voice, his action and concern...
2006-11-14 07:22:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST is a very difficult thing for us women.
Do yourself a favour and try it once in a while, you'll never know unless u do.
2006-11-14 07:18:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree wit the others on this. love can sometimes be a funny thing to figure out. but if he does love u he will show it
2006-11-14 07:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋