If you were 35 years old were divorced and had 3 kids and bipolar disorder would you continue to have a friends with benefits relationship with a slightly older man who has a girlfriend he has been living with for 3 years in hope he may leave her?
I don't have much time these days to have a proper relationship but I have still having casual sex with other people without him knowing. I have also been having sex with a 24 year old guy who knows about this other guy but he says he is really into me and cares for me, he is so nice and single but I don't know what to do. Should I tell him about all the other guys I am with and risk breaking his heart and wait for other guy or go for him?
2006-11-13 23:03:00 · 6 answers · asked by bob n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him, if you care at all about him, them let him decide from there...
2006-11-13 23:05:34 · answer #1 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The other guy isn't going to leave his girlfriend of three years for you, why should he? He's already getting what he wants. Stop sleeping around! What good man wants a woman that is willing to be everybody's good time girl! You need to re-evaluate your life and understand why you're doing this to yourself. Think about what message you're sending your children!
2006-11-13 23:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How messed up are you? At your age you should already know the dangers of having casual sex, with different partners.....damn leave these men alone and find out who you are before you get into any other kind of relationship.
2006-11-13 23:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by Mintjulip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy is still with his girl after 3 years, i would think you should just forget him, he wont leave her, go with the one that really liks you,.....i have some Friends with bipolar, and they are past 60, so you have lots of life ahead of you, go and LIVE, good luck.
2006-11-13 23:10:36 · answer #4 · answered by funguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wont break his heart hes already got a girlfriend and your his bit on the side.
You have a very understanding guy that obviously like you alot.
But if your like me you tend to go for the bad guys instead of having a nice guy as you see that as a boring option.
Believe me i would rather boring option any day now.
2006-11-13 23:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no
2006-11-13 23:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋