And they are being pushy about it, but you really just don't get along with them?
2006-11-13 22:24:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
ignore them
2006-11-13 22:24:46 · answer #1 · answered by Martin the baby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly...at the start your pal is obviously jealous of you having moved away considering she nevertheless lives at abode. while she tells those which you have a terrible stay the place you reside now, she is attempting to make it sound like staying the place you used to stay is so lots greater of a better concern. She's feeling sorry for herself and attempting to make herself look greater desirable on your friends eyes. attempt to be honest along with her and tell her which you don't appreciate her conversing approximately you in the back of your returned. particularly with the aid of fact it particularly is going to at last get returned to you she shouldn't additionally be gossiping approximately you interior the 1st place. Its glaring that she has too lots time on her palms so she talks approximately you. and you're good, you do ought to spend equivalent time with all your friends and not purely her. tell her this returned and additionally point out which you prefer time to spend which incorporate your very own kinfolk to boot as your different acquaintances. you purely must be honest and tell her how lots it bothers you. all of it comes right down to the undeniable fact that she is jealous approximately you being waiting to flow away and having an entire life of your very own working and assembly new people while she is caught interior the homeland the place you the two grew up. She probable additionally misses you and desires you have been returned abode so she ought to be sure you greater. according to risk you ought to start up off via asserting you such as you ought to nevertheless be there along with her yet you have a sparkling existence now and are greater desirable than happy.
2016-10-03 22:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you really want nothing to do with these people? They may be worth getting to know, everyone has some redeming feature and they be the friends you are waiting for. If not turn down their advances politely and firmly and keep doing so.
2006-11-13 23:52:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't downright tell them you dont want to be friends or hang out with them, that would be too mean. Just keep giving them excuses as to why you cant get together and eventually they should take the hint.
2006-11-14 05:02:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Politely just stare at them, like you really don't care.When they ask you to do something with them,say"I'll call you".When they become really pushy say"I really don't want to be bother now".When you're a grown up, you can be BLUNT and no one cares.....Take Charge.
2006-11-14 04:50:14 · answer #5 · answered by Maw-Maw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Establish your boundaries with them and be assertive, not aggressive, about it. Thank them for what they offer, but don't be afraid to say no. If they refuse to accept no for an answer, cut off all contact. As an adult you do not owe anyone any big explanations for the way that you chose to live.
2006-11-13 22:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
i tend to be blunt.
i would tell them that although they seem to be a nice person i just don't have the time or space in my life for another friend right now.
was that polite enough?
2006-11-13 22:29:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them how much you love budweiser, buda, and the battlestar galactica, yeah baby, YEAH! If tha don't work. Run hard! Run fast!
2006-11-13 22:31:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell them to trust that you can take care of your own life.
you respect them for being there for you,but they need to respect your wish to be independant.
2006-11-13 22:30:32 · answer #9 · answered by missy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be blunt and honest.
2006-11-13 22:35:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋