my sister is 15 & got pregnant by a half spanish/african american 20 year old guy,my parents are very religious ( my moms a preacher and my dad works for the goverment) they don't believe in cross breeding or pre-marital sex so she has to get rid of this kid before they find out or she'll be sent away to a special school...she's 3 months pregnant....is it too late for her to abort this baby? and if it is how can she get rid of it can she take a bunch of morning after pills with some liqour?? how else can she solve this problem
2006-11-13 21:40:28 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why no kill it right, its your whore sisters fault for screwing around let her deal with the shame. There is no reason to kill an innocent life because you and her are effed up in the head and cannot keep your legs closed. Put the child up for adoption, prob. be better off anyway with someone that can take better care of themselves than that. Enjoy burning in hell!
-NmD!
2006-11-13 21:45:22 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
I believe it could be too late for an abortion - my suggestion would be that she talk to someone she can trust, such as a school nurse or sexual health/family planning clinic. I don't think 'getting rid of this kid' is such a hot idea, particularly if it is too late for an abortion. As a previous answerer said, 'adoption is an option' - I would NOT attempt taking drugs or liqour or anything of this sort - it is not safe for your sister, and if it fails to cause her to miscarry (which it probably will fail to do) it is likely to result in a very sick, possibly deformed or mentally retarded, baby (you may want to do a google search on 'foetal alcohol syndrome', for example). Basically, it may end up that your sister has to confront your parents and deal with the pregnancy and the effects it will have on her life. You may want to be there to support her, or perhaps a close friend or trusted adult. Your parents are just going to have to deal with it, basically - they can get over their racism, and they can deal with the fact that (a) their children mighn't wish to follow in their beliefs of no pre-marital sex, and (b) they clearly either didn't give proper sex education to their children or weren't available to be asked questions by their children about such matters - your sister should have been informed about contraception, and 15 is a very young age to be engaged in sexual activity. (That doesn't mean all the blame is on your parents though, by any means... but it sounds as though some of it certainly could be).
I hope this is of some help. Best wishes to you and your sister.
2006-11-14 05:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your sister should speak with an adult at Planned Parenthood. There are alot of couples in this world who would love to have your sisters baby. Yes it probably is too late for an abortion....but do you really think that people are going to give you legitimate advice on how to kill that baby???
If your parents are so religious why would they have such animosity or intolerance for an innocent baby of mixed race...who by the way did not ask to be put in this situation? I'll bet they would be more understanding than you think. Most parents do not want their kids to have pre-marital sex because it can lead to challenges like the one your sister is facing now!!
She needs to reach out to and adult somewhere to figure out what her options are!
2006-11-14 05:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is too late for her to have an abortion and morning after pills won't work now. She is just going to have to suffer the consequences and tell her parents. Maybe she can put the baby up for adoption. There is no other way to get rid of the problem. She shouldn't of been having sex in the first place especially without protection.
2006-11-14 05:44:41 · answer #4 · answered by kitten 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I don't understand why she has to get rid.
You say your parents don't believe in pre-marital sex, having an abortion does not change the fact that your sister had pre-marital sex.
Do your parents believe in killing innocent babies?
Morning after pill and alcohol will not get rid of it but can cause complications.
tell her to make an appointment with her doctor to get an unbiased opinion, the doctor will tell her all of the options available.
2006-11-14 05:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im sorry to say this but your sister has to come clean to your guys parents... The minute she had sex with that man she was at risk of falling pregnant... SHE MADE A CHOICE and now she must live with the results of that choice... And may I say I cant believe abortion was even an option, that is MURDER! You and your sister need to come to your senses, you guys cant run from this... If she didnt want to fall pregant why on earth did she sleep with that man?? Your parents need to know and you and her needs to come to terms with what ever they decide to do...
2006-11-14 06:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by mist_faer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly how old are you?! You can not take a load of morning after pills and liquor to abort a baby! Your sister needs to go to the doctor to discuss her options. Your parents will not find out as it will be a breech of patient confidentiality for the doctor to tell anyone about her situation, Your sister should have been more careful and in future use contraception and she is under age the guy should have known better he took advantage.
2006-11-14 05:44:14 · answer #7 · answered by Missbutterfly:-) 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
dont let her do it. what if she dies. tell your parents, let them know it was a mistake am sure they wont kill her, they're your parents are they not? abortion shouldnt be an option. help your sister by talking to your parents, the damage has been done already so dont deepen the wound. let her have the baby and probably give it up for adoption if she cant take care of the baby. ask God to direct you.
2006-11-14 07:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by ugochi o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try any self-thought abortion method! It might kill her!!!
You should seek help at a state office for these kind of things, AND she will have to confront your parents.
The best thing to do, if you are in the US, would be to give birth to the child and set it up for adoption.
Consider that your sister will loose any right to the newborn baby.
Another great thing to do, is to use condoms!
2006-11-14 06:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by ale_limp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have the baby and give him/her up for adoption? Get on the net and look for an adoption agency. They will pay for all her prenatal care and whoever adopts the baby will be at the hospital when the baby is born and take him/her home with them. She doesn't even have to see the baby ever, if she doesn't want to. That way, she hasn't done something she regrets later, and gives the baby a good home for some couple who can't have kids.
2006-11-14 05:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by jojof2004 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋