Ok, I've always believed that the first time i have sex, it would be with a girl i've known/someone special with whom i connect to at some level. But im in a stage in my life, where i cannot commit to any girl right now. And im yet to meet a girl who wants to enjoy a short-term relationship. Yeah, i tell them i cant commit bcos i dont want to break their heart later. Its tough being that way...bcos my libido is not getting tired but my hands are. So i've decided to do it with a hooker/stranger/someone. My question to the non-virgins is....
"What will i be missing if i do it with a stranger? Or should i wait for that one girl until i blow away in desperation?"
2006-11-13 21:32:52 · 12 answers · asked by Varan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not met a girl who enjoy short-term relationship?? thats because our paths never crossed. bring it on big guy!
2006-11-14 01:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by SmithA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Losing your virginity is never a big deal after you've lost it, though I can remember exactly how big a deal it was before! What made it weirder for me was because I was the first out of my group of friends and I was getting quizzed about it for a month!
The main thing about losing it is, it doesn't really matter how it happens or who it's with, as long as a few years down the road you don't regret it and wish you'd waited. Very very few people in this world have the Fairy Tale first time sex, all romantic, with the right person at the right time - sound to me like you just want to get it out of the way so you don't have it on your mind anymore and can just have some fun! No problems at all having sex with a stranger, especially if it's just the physical release that you're after, but I'd keep away from the prostitute idea if I were you... There's a big difference between meeting someone, sparking it off and deciding you like them enough to get down to it, and actually paying someone for it...
Good Luck, Have Fun and Be Safe!!!
Lx
2006-11-13 21:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you've waited so far for the "right" one, you should not quit now. You say that you've always believed that your first time would be with someone you have at least some kind of connection. If you do it with just "someone" you'll end up feeling that you betrayed yourself. Plus, you once you get into that world, once you know what sex is like, there's no going back. You'll miss it, so you'll do it with another stranger.. and another if you're lucky so you'll get another kind of desperation, and you won't be able to stop it just with your hands.. Anyways, at the end, it's your decision to make, but be aware and prepared for what your decision may lead to. There's no right or wrong i guess as long as it makes you happy. Good luck!
2006-11-13 21:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does HIV come to mind? i mean u say that u basically do it with everybody, homeless, big, small,bald, if she has one leg and kick stand etc. u sound like a "dirty pippin dog". if u are a player u are a player for the rest of your life and if that means when u get old and put in a home and after 75-95 years of looking for that one special girl then so be it. in fact u and R.Kelly must be related. because as he says that he is still look for that special someone(smile)
2006-11-13 21:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by ALL4ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could be losing something in your personality where you could run the risk of getting used to it; you could then lose fidelity to the one you love later on; you could lose interest in one person if you will want to stick to one person one day because maybe you would find the "stranger adventure" quite exciting. you could be losing some money as well. A guy in our neighbourhood brought a stranger for a night. The next morning she left with his thirty thousand dollars- the most expensive night he ever had!!
2006-11-13 21:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by meshack m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not a food that once you eat you are full.when you do it you will want it more and more at least twice a week.So you have to find someone to be with you for a long time.
Being with strangers may cause STDs and you will find out that it did not worth it.
Find a girl friend .
2006-11-13 21:49:26 · answer #6 · answered by Lili 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All i can say to you is DONT DO IT!! You are going to have regrets, that i can promise you... Wait for the right girl... Also you have got to be soooooooo careful these days with just casual sex, what will you do if you get an STD??
2006-11-13 22:55:41 · answer #7 · answered by mist_faer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's one thing you'll be missing....and that's doing it with someone you love and remembering the moment with a special girl not with a hooker and besides you might get a desease from a hooker
2006-11-13 22:28:22 · answer #8 · answered by ~Vegan~ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only thing you'll be missing is your virginity.
Sex still feels good even if it's with someone you don't love..
2006-11-13 21:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
wait for the right girl and dont spend unnecessary medicines
2006-11-13 21:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by shakthi v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋