My ex rang me last night and said he blames me for having a miscarriage, he blames me for drinkin and not carin about others, he says im fat even though i weigh 7.5 stone, he only wants me for sex BUT he said last week he cares about me and wishes me to be the mother of his children cuz he knows i care about him and would do anything for him. Why say all this if he doesnt mean it?
2006-11-13 21:22:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant he blames me for his drinkin, not me drinkin cuz i dont drink much
2006-11-13 21:32:02 · update #1
He's in lurv with you. He's at a point where you might have done something that hurt him deeply.Whatever that may have been...maybe seeing another guy or you might have said something.He wants you to feel the same pain he is feeling. My advice be careful.
2006-11-13 21:29:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cube 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't care what age you both are but it appears to me theres a lot of growing up to be done. 1. his attitude 2. are you ready for the commitment of parenthood a baby is 24 hours a day and those are not just words, your life is no longer your own. If you had a problem staying of the alcohol for 9 months, review your situation.don't have anything to do with this heartless individual.
2006-11-14 05:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That isn't fair to blame you for that. I would steer clear from him, because he can hurt you in some of the most horrible ways. With words. Sometimes cheating or even a beating, can be easier on you than such means words. Even though I condone none of the above.
2006-11-14 05:25:38 · answer #3 · answered by Cody B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dear i tell u onething that some guys think that SEX is the only thing in the world and nothing else what ever he doing is only trying to have pleasure from u by showing u the big dreams but realty is that once u have sex with him and as he gets bore he will leave u wht u need to do is to find the true love who can b ur better half not these kind of guys....
2006-11-14 05:32:37 · answer #4 · answered by sapanbhuriya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, your ex seriously needs a psychiatric evaluation. He sounds like a typical americain. Is he an americain guy ?
2006-11-14 05:38:41 · answer #5 · answered by ChevalierCourageux 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is a bit insecure and trying to have the power over you , mind control... he does not know what he wants, and seems to be trying to put you down as the main culprit in the relationship. move on and find someone else. You need a more stable man who is aware of his goals.
2006-11-14 05:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
he's confuse with his feelings with you.
he's saying this because he wants you back..
you know what don't accept him anymore why?
why would he say nasty things or say those words that can hurt you, if he loves you. i wouldn't say those nonsense words if i love the gurl. i will only tell good things about her and the things i like bout her. he's making fun of you..
2006-11-14 05:29:31 · answer #7 · answered by vodka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys take their word for granted... even, sadly, their beloved. Maybe he was drunk when he said those positive things.
Or, he could be drunk when he said all those negative things.
2006-11-14 05:26:27 · answer #8 · answered by humble_samurai 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u also want to have sex with him why do u care whether what he says is truth or not? who cares
2006-11-14 05:28:18 · answer #9 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give him a call back, and tell him never to call again. The guy is a scumbag.
2006-11-14 05:24:45 · answer #10 · answered by angrysandwichguy1 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋