How do I attract the good guys? I seem to always get attention from the nasty ones, and no it isn't because I am a nasty person myself!! I am 19, young I know but it would be cool to know how I am meant to go about getting a good guy one of these days :-)
2006-11-13 21:06:37 · 20 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do the girls who have answered this seem to think that all nice guys are geeks/weirdo's? Some of my friends have lovely, kind, sweet boyfriends and they aren't "geeks"!
2006-11-13 21:18:33 · update #1
the thing is to not go for the loud outgoing people, they usually like to think they're great and enjoying bragging about it. the best type of people hang back and if you don't look you won't find them. the nice guys are just out there waiting to be found, get talking to everyone you can find and you will soon discover one!
2006-11-14 11:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know. I am a good guy, and I go for nice girls like you. The problem is, when I build up the guts to say something to you, you are already seeing someone. Usually the nasty guy.. so when you break up with him. I am already gone. Understand? If the oppotunity comes, really think about it, cause it might not come again. It is not wrong to dump your boyfriend just because hes your boyfriend. See, a guy like me and that Sarah up their would never work. Cause she obviously takes kindness as a weakness. And doesnt like the guy giving her oppotunites to make choices. Girls like her.. bore me.
2006-11-13 21:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Cody B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
purely wait and spot. im a woman that hasnt fallen for the jerk style and am waiting around for a useful guy, yet useful men arent consistently the terrific the two. purely wait and spot, and the guy who will love you for who you're will come alongside. to boot, in case you get each and all of the girls now, you are able to grow to be a jerk. so permit existence take its direction, and dont have confidence the stereotype that each and one and all women want a bad boy. reason its no longer actual.
2016-10-03 22:55:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've just been unlucky and you're far too young to settle down just now anyway so why not just enjoy having a good time and stop worrying about finding a guy.
2006-11-13 21:23:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, many times we use to say that all the girls are attracted to the bad guys, put we have to say that good guys are always doing something so is harder to find them because they are always busy, they do not have time to date
2006-11-13 21:59:33 · answer #5 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not that you get attention from the nasty ones, you are just more fascinated by them so you notice them more than you notice nice guys. I mean, what's so exciting about a nice guy...? :\
2006-11-13 21:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by rath 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
TAKE IT SLOW.... it takes a long time sometimes but for most it eventually happens. date be very careful because there are alot of nutjobs out there. it may take years but isnt it worth the wait if it can last years and years.
2006-11-13 21:14:29 · answer #7 · answered by debra_ql 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As fatherly advice, they're really pretty rare in this day and age, which is sad. They don't even really come close, IMO. It's hard to know what to tell a girl.
2006-11-13 21:10:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very hard to find the good guys but have hope, faith and be cool. They will surely come.
2006-11-13 21:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
can i know some of your Friends???lol...anyway when guys are good to you ,you get bored.when they are nasty you complain.u cant satisfy a woman if you can't get the one you love.love the one you are with
2006-11-13 21:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by lady c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋