He was the one to break up with me, he moved on in new relationships, so...why does he keep calling?
2006-11-13 20:39:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anais 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He dumped me, he has a new relationship...I don't understand. I don't even answer when he calls. But he keeps calling.
2006-11-13 20:54:15 · update #1
It's possible that he does not want you to move on. And as for you, the reason you entertain his calls is because, maybe subconsciously, you are still holding on and you still think there's a chance that you'll be back together. Girl, if you think this way, maybe you can't move on, because you don't want to do so in the first place.
2006-11-13 20:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its really bothering, you must end it soon rather than letting it affect you. He must be regretting the decision, but he's too late for a serious relationship with you again. Its better to keep away from him and move on with life.
2006-11-14 04:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by KC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hi, there are only 2 reasons i can think of for this and that is firstly he feels he has made a mistake and wants you back....or secondly he is a cruel pastard and want to play mind games with you...either way you will have to search your heart and think seriously what you want to do about it do you think it could work a second time? if not tell him to stop calling and try and meet someone new or just enjoy being single....he had his chance and blew it...good luck
2006-11-14 04:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am somewhat in the same situation...I been trying to figure it out, he keeps giving me mixed signals by calling me. First I thought maybe he still liked me but now as time goes by I think he might just be bored or wants to keep me hanging. I decided to never talk to him again...otherwise I wasn't going to get over him. I think guys like to play mind games so he might want you to think he still cares, but in reality he doesnt know what he wants. He might be confused.
2006-11-14 04:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by Layla 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't expect anything from him anymore. maybe he just misses you but that doesn't mean he still loves you. or maybe he's not happy with his new relationship. but ussually they just miss the times the both of you are together.. if you want him to stop calling you tell him you have a new bf.. so he won't attempt to bother you anymore..
2006-11-14 04:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by vodka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it- ignore his calls, block his number do whatever you can but dont bother speaking to the turd, if he got rid of you then its either some big macho trip he is going on that he can still "have" you whenever he wants, or he realises he made a mistake, well its his loss and dont bother with a jerk that is dumb enough to get rid of you in the first place! basically! : )
2006-11-14 04:45:20 · answer #6 · answered by princesssp8 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to know that he can have you if he wants you, and the fact that you haven't answered the calls has probably made him panic and feel that he wants you back
2006-11-14 05:05:33 · answer #7 · answered by crownose 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why not ask him the next time he calls, say that he finished your relationship so why keep calling?
2006-11-14 04:46:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he wants to have his cake and eat it too.
Ask him directly. "I'm curious; Leo: You dumped me; why do you still call?"
2006-11-14 04:45:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be obsessed with you, for your sake, I hope not..
Some guys are creeps who want other women but dont want to see you go on with life and be with any other guy...
I would find out quickly and get him out of your life for good, if this is the case
2006-11-14 04:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋