My boyfriend told me after a party we were at, that a 40 year old women asked her to go to the washroom with him? for what reasons, I do not know. So i asked this women why she would ask my boyfriend to the washroom. My boyfriend is 27 years old by the way. She replied that he was the one who asked her to the washroom and they both insisted that each was lying, should i just let this one go or try to get more details?
2006-11-13 20:37:24 · 19 answers · asked by jen w 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'd believe ur boyfriend.
it's just a hunch.
& yes insist on more details,4 ur own peace of mind.
2006-11-13 20:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whatever the case might be, its left for you to decide whether you still want your bf or not because a stranger could not have walked up to him to ask him to escort her to the washroom so its obvious they might know each other.
You could move on and keep an eye on him or you have a re-think of the relationship if you can't trust him again.
2006-11-13 20:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a matter of 'he said, she said' and without finding some one that witnessed exactly what went on, you'll never be able to prove which one of them instigated the washroom question.
I wouldn't worry about it. Your boyfriend should have kept his mouth shut about it. It's a smidgen of a detail that really wasn't worth mentioning.
Maybe he's telling the truth, and maybe it's only wishful thinking on his part.
Maybe she's telling the truth and maybe it's only wishful thinking on her part.
Who knows? But I wouldn't worry about it.
Consider it a complement to you for your taste in boyfriends if she did ask.
2006-11-13 20:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How naive are you?.It doesn't matter who asked whom?.The problem is he went.If he loved you and was true to you,he wouldn't have gone to the washroom with anybody.You,my dear are dealing with the cheater.Once a cheater,allways a cheater.Have some respect for yourself and dignity,damp him.You deserve better.
2006-11-13 20:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question you might consider asking yourself is not who is lying, but who do you trust. If they didnt go to the bathroom together and nothing happened anyway, perhaps its best to let it go.
2006-11-13 20:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by sunline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never get the truth out of either of them so I wouldn't bother asking them again. To me it sounds like your b/f might be the one lying here.
2006-11-13 20:43:34 · answer #6 · answered by rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now both know that you have doubt. If that woman is already known your boyfriend or not or she simply want the break in your relationship. Try to find out. You know your boyfriend and if you do not know that woman, Try to find out what kind of woman she is.
2006-11-13 20:44:51 · answer #7 · answered by R S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think anyone can tell you who was lying but i think your boyfriend has more of a reason to lie.
2006-11-13 20:39:58 · answer #8 · answered by Joe D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman is lying believe me
2006-11-13 20:59:32 · answer #9 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what does she gain from lying to you? What is she trying to protect? Hon, she doesn't care a lick about you so lying to you would do her no good, or bad, for her.
It's your man I'd be worried about, miss.
Lose him and find another.
2006-11-13 20:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋