And then her mom talked to me about it said I shuld get circumsize before she will aprove of our dating. Is this norml? what to do about it I never herd this crazy stuff before freaked me out
2006-11-13 20:36:13 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's crazy. And what a freaky dysfunctional family. You're better off without her, mate.
2006-11-13 20:41:08 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Her mom should definitely mind her business. Now if she doesn't want to have sex because you aren't circumsized thats her opinion. I have never actually had a partner that wasnt (and i wasnt going around saying let me look at it and see if it has foreskin) but as long as it was a clean and a disease free penis i could get past it unless it feels icky but just because it has extra skin come on its all about results here. if its ugly no offense to you women dont stare at it. but dont change for her unless she is about to be your wife or something and your willing to make that sacrifice. Because if she brought her mom into it which i think is way weird, anyway long story short there is no way to prove yall would even be together for ever so why do something so life changing unless you are sure and want too. And i'm sure alot of other people feel like me. So move on and get it on with chicks that will accept it if she has a problem with it. If you had a problem with it you would have been got circumsized. Its your decision point blank.
2006-11-14 04:46:30 · answer #2 · answered by debra_ql 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hm...unelss you are planning to marry this girl...the mother ( or the girlfriend) has no say in your buddy's appearance. And if the daughter is that open about sex with her mom, that is a hint for you to get out while you can. The mom is a control freak, and the daughter is "mommy's girl", and that mother is going to have a say in everything you guys do in the future...imagine that for a Mother in Law! :-p Most men nowadays don't have circumcision (and a lot of girls actually find that as a turn off) with the exception of those who do it for religious/cultural reasons, or medical reasons (an infection, or bad skin allergies). So I think you're fine with the foreskin. So what you should do is tell the mother that its none of her business what you johnny looks like, and get a girl who loves you the way you are (plenty out there! guarantee ya. ;-)
2006-11-14 04:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by CloudRider9 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what planet the mother comes from, but circumcision is not natural - if nature didn't intend you to have one, you'd have been born without it. Circumscision served a purpose many years ago when it was started in Western civilisation, and is a rite of passage is some cultures, however medically there is NO reason for it.
It is also quite dangerous for an adult male, so I wouldn't be attempting it at all.
My son is 30 and circumcision hasn't been done here routinely since well before he was born. It is old-fashioned.
Tell her you DO know how to use soap and water!
2006-11-14 04:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by Gillian 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two choices, drop her or get cut! Me? I drop her so fast that you would here her hit the pavement before you saw her. Being cut takes your stamina away, and causes all kinds of discomfort, needless to say more accidental woodies. By not being cut though, you have to be more sanitary concious before sex. Make sure you clean your tool well. You limit youself from having spontaneous, back seat of the car sex, but its never as good as an old fashioned bed. Not being cut, when you urinate it gets trapped in your foreskin, and so does sweat, and other bodily fluids. So be sure you wash Mr. Winky thoroughly with soap and water before sex. But other than that, keep your hat on cowboy!
2006-11-14 04:44:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the girl. She is not worth it. If she doesn't love you the way you are, then forget it because it is too dangerous for an adult male to go for circumsion.
2006-11-14 05:20:26 · answer #6 · answered by King of Torts 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Itseems as if they are in some kind of religion that believes in circumsizm.Well if you believe that by doing it, it will relieve those tension in your relationship, go ahead with it.To tell you the truth , when you circumsize it is more hygenic ,btu it is for you to decide
2006-11-14 04:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude that is bullshit!! There is nothing wrong with a dick having a beanie on. ****. They are just as big, and tasty as any other circumsized cock. Just looks a little different. Lol but this is what I have been told..
2006-11-14 04:38:23 · answer #8 · answered by Cody B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is actually not that crazy to some people it's very important to them for example chirstains,muslimes and some people like Africans especially belive you most be circumsize they do it at a very early age to their kids, i think at the age of five or six.welli feel that you should just try to think about it and they should explain properly to you so you can understand them ok and then make your mind if you can do it to be with her,but i know for sure that it is not like they don't like you it's just very important to them.
2006-11-14 04:45:44 · answer #9 · answered by shiva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats stupid hunny shes not worth it then because there will probally more demands in the futer. if you do decide to tell her she has to pay for sergery then. shes crazy i think it feels better when a man isnt circumsized find someone better its you body do what you want why change your body when she probally isnt going to be around forever
2006-11-14 04:47:52 · answer #10 · answered by blueeyedjenny2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋