I found out that my current boyfriend was married and cheated on his wife. Is once a cheater always a cheater or can men actually genuinely change their ways and not cheat?
2006-11-13 20:05:47 · 21 answers · asked by Emma D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
everyone has it in them to cheat whether they've done it before or not, it depends on who you are with and how much you value the relationship and of course whether you think you will be caught. I have done the dirty once years ago and after that was faithful through thick and thin to someone that moved to the other side of the world for 6 months despite being propositioned several times by girls which is something I had previously thought I'd never resist. so yes people can change and be faithful.
2006-11-13 20:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by crownose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me that once a cheater always a cheater is true, maybe one cheater out of a thousand will never cheat again. That's coming from a man. I would suggest dumping him but you know him better so I would say you have to make that decision yourself.
2006-11-14 04:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It actually depends on the guy. He may not ever cheat again because he has learned his lesson. But he may also cheat again at anytime. I always believed once a cheater always a cheater. so i don't know what to tell you to do.
2006-11-14 04:29:22 · answer #3 · answered by kissinyou07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since I am a firm believer in "everyone deserves to be happy in life", I feel that if someone isn't happy in a relationship, it is time to move on. There is no excuse for cheating on one's partner. Either work to fix it or get out of it. Close one door before opening another. I agree with everyone who has said once a cheater the potential will always be there.
2006-11-14 04:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough subject to get into..
It all depends on the individual man..not all men act the same way in every situation..
It could go either way, he could always be a cheater..or he could of suffered so bad from his previous mistakes that he has changed his ways and regrets how he acted and is so remorsefull he will never do it again to another person..
So good luck, only time will tell..along with his personality, thoughts, morals..there are too many factors to just make a general statement that is true about every man..
2006-11-14 04:10:21 · answer #5 · answered by The Chesire Cat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can do is tell u bout my experice..yes once a cheater always a cheater ..i been maried 27 years ..and he cheated all the time...in october some girl called his cell phone and said she is his girlfriend i had to have our numbers changed and now i found out he is with her again ..so i finally gave up and left him thursday ...so i believe once a cheater always a cheater
2006-11-14 04:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by liltexas36 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my own experience I would say definately yes. Once a cheater, always a cheater. It's only a matter of time.
2006-11-14 04:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by Misha-non-penguin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater... genuine guys won't cheat in the first place...
2006-11-14 04:07:33 · answer #8 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater is ALWAYS a cheater. But, you have to ask you someting more important. We know he is a cheater, but does he have another qualities. Are this qualities more important than being a cheater?
2006-11-14 05:09:20 · answer #9 · answered by www.tr-avel.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheat always a cheat. You would make yourself look a fool to believe a man who is married will stay loyal to you after he leaves his wife for you? Get real, and realize who you are in this your the other woman and a home wrecker and what goes around comes around.
-NmD!
2006-11-14 04:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋