He said, "It's not big deal..they're just friends and they just check-in with each other now and then." He said , "What's my problem?" and that he's not threatened by any relationship I have with any guy. (I haven't been having any.) I don't think he's going to give up his old friend/ship for me, and my old love wants to take me to the game Wed., is it time for some hardball?
2006-11-13 19:50:11 · 6 answers · asked by LuckyEddie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do you really want to live like this???
Personally I can't imagine being with a guy like that. It will be a
constant battle. He will break your heart.
You might love him with all of your heart...but we all have someone we can't be with. Unless he lets go of his old love a good relationship can't be possible.
In the end you need to make sure you get what you need from a relationship.
If you go to the game with your old love.....the games between you and the boyfriend will be painful and endless.
Go to the game only if you are done with the fiancee.
And believe me once you are married all the things you hate about a guy doesn't get better, it just gets worse.
2006-11-13 19:58:04 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi, well i must say that u r in a very tough situation. but also that it is not the time to take a step back. just go & straight away tell ur mom or dad, give them the proof. if still doesn't work go & talk to the friend of ur fiancee, go as a nice hearted person, call her for a dinner & ask her abt the past {abt her & ur fiancee}. if she doesn't agree then something is FISHY!! its just the engagement u can have a break. but don't stop thinking abt urself. life is very short for hatred so, love urself & them u will definiately find the best person. take step urself before anythin goes wrong.
2006-11-14 03:59:44 · answer #2 · answered by shravya r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if seeing his old girlfriend is more important to him than you then I'd really call into question the whole relationship. Playing tit for tat games is childish.
2006-11-14 03:58:38 · answer #3 · answered by Dark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never stoop to a lower level then you are just as much in the wrong as them.
2006-11-14 04:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, see how they guy reacts.
2006-11-14 03:54:08 · answer #5 · answered by Daniel and Fang Fang in China 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
playing fire with fire only means one thing. someone is bound to get burnt
2006-11-14 03:59:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋