The other night at the dinner table his cell phone rang. He didnt answer it in time, so he immediately called the number back. I was sitting right next to him. I could hear very clearly that it was a woman on the phone, but since he was speaking in spanish I couldnt understand the conversation. After he hung up, I asked who it was, and he said "Phillipe". So I told him I knew it was a woman because I could hear the voice. He got REALLY mad and told me to stop checking out his whole life. Then he told me it was the owner of the store he used to work for because they want him to return to his job. So I asked why he didnt just tell me that in the first place. I believe the call came from the store because I have the cell phone record that I checked, but that doesnt necessarily mean it was the owners wife that called him. I'm confused. I cant see any reason why he would lie about something so stupid if he wasnt up to no good. What would you do if this happened to you?
2006-11-13 19:40:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Another similar incident happened about a year ago, so I have been finding it hard to trust him. Also, yes there is a woman working there that I have "wondered" about because he told me she is married, but she isnt.
2006-11-13 21:05:21 · update #1
Yes he is cheating!Otherwise why would he lie to you.Also why else would he get angry with you just for asking a question.Go with your instincts.If your gut feeling tells you there is something wrong then trust it.Women have excellent instincts but for some reason we don't listen to them.Also if he has a past with you of secrecy and not being honest with you then I would have to say ........Yes He Is Cheating.
2006-11-13 19:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by brownifox2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him the benefit of the doubt. The more you harass someone about their life, the more you're going to make them angry and be pushed further away. Did he ever give you any valid reason to cheat? I'd watch closely but wouldn't keep hounding him about phone calls or anything else. My X was like that; I couldn't even go anywhere and it would be, "Where did you go? Who did you see? What did you buy? How much did you spend?" Who did you talk to?" It got to the point, I was actually afraid to talk to anyone if I saw them somewhere. That's NOT a good feeling.
2006-11-14 03:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is cheating on you. If he was, he'd be pretty stupid to do it right in front of you. He wouldn't have dialed the number back right away, in front of you, and speak another language to someone if he was cheating. He would have waited till later, or gone to the bathroom and used the pay phone to avoid numbers on bills. I say believe him, but maybe you want to call the store and see if they want him back? But again, if you don't trust him then you never will trust him and you'll be wondering your whole life if he's cheating on you.
2006-11-14 03:51:51 · answer #3 · answered by Vette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would slap the cheating spirit right out of him. Maybe buy a pair of Sockem Boppers and spend a night "motivating" him with repeated blows to the face. Or mabye you can just watch and wait. However unneccesary violence achieves INSTANTANEOUS results
2006-11-14 03:45:52 · answer #4 · answered by Hayakain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn it,you should know spanish,,,,well,why dont you just go to that place and see if there's a pretty girl there,she doesnt have to be pretty though,just a girl,working there off course,if there is,then he's lying,or maybe he has something with the owner's wife?could be......but honestly i think he's hiding something.....
2006-11-14 04:05:35 · answer #5 · answered by pinky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, can't say if he's really cheating on you but I'd definately say he's HIDING something from you. You should dig more. Besides, if he truly loves you, he won't mind all the digging you make right? Good luck.
2006-11-14 03:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Lu Chee Bye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There was no reason to lie. If you can't trust him, leave him. Or learn spanish.
2006-11-14 03:44:41 · answer #7 · answered by Karen D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i wish thw owners wife would be calling me....but he should hv answerd the call in front of you not to make u suspect of things. if it was me,, i would tell him or her to call back n talk ibfront of me.... i forgot me to dont understand spanish...
2006-11-14 03:45:55 · answer #8 · answered by harry d 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's having some hot latina lovin'. Did you really need us to confirm that for you?
2006-11-14 03:47:02 · answer #9 · answered by IceTrojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cheating.... first sign he lied and second he got mad which he shouldn't of gotten mad if he wasn't caught! get rid of him before you are really hurt!
2006-11-14 03:45:20 · answer #10 · answered by MagikButterfly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋