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he all of u pls help me i wana improve my skillls

2006-11-13 19:40:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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When you communicate with females, first of all, never have this idea that you must impress them. Otherwise, you will be tense, and will never be your natural self.
Talking to females is no different from talking to males, except that you have to be more sensitive about your language (try not to curse, use vulgar words and swear. *Sometimes, I forgot about that, but then I would make it a point to apologise immediately).
Talk about everyday things, like, "Hi, how do you do? I like that bright smile of yours, your eyes are attractive, hey when are you buying me dinner for being so nice to you, etc, etc."
These are the along the same lines which we use on our close buddies, like hey black face, you owe me a lunch for making me wait, etc, etc.
Of course, we accord more respect to the opposite sex, and if we are more serious about developing the relationship further, try to be attentive to the other party. You must have genuine care and concern for the other party, and that could lead you as a starting point to observe more positive traits about the other party (and for you to naturally sing out a compliment or two). **PS, I'm already married.

2006-11-13 19:55:37 · answer #1 · answered by dreamofyz 2 · 0 0

Most men would say they are scared. But have you ever tried being friends with them. like share stuff at school or work and share comments and dont expect much in return except honest friendship. Once you can do that, you can also start talking to them abt other things and will be able to pursue a relationship too. Hope this helps.

2006-11-13 19:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

first, and i dont say this to be insulting, learn to type. you ability to use language will vastly improve your ability to comunicate with anyone.
second, have confidence. you obviously dont have any for real, and thats ok. confidence comes from the accomplishment of difficult tasks. so go do something hard. but untill then, and this wil sound stupid but it works, fake it. just ask yourself what someone who didnt care what happens would do, and do that. they arent sharks. they cant hurt you.
lastly, and again this sounds all wrong, but women are idiotic. they will be drawn to the person who is least trying to impress them. so dont try. quit trying to get their attention, and they will give it you. i dont know why, and neither do they. its retarded, but it works.
last, smile a lot. have fun, be fun to be around. as soon as you stop caring what other people think and just have fun, people will like you. partly because you dont change who you are based on the crowd. you are just you. good luck.

2006-11-13 19:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by savgbst 3 · 0 0

I really feel your pain. The bad news is that it is biologically programed into you to fear approaching an attractive female. The good news is you can learn to work around it. It's more than can be explained here but you are welcome to contact me and I will do what I can to help. Also check out the link below the guy behind it really knows what he is talking about.

2006-11-13 19:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by DarkWolf 4 · 0 0

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