been in serious relationship with person for nearly 4 years - have not done THE deed in like 9 months all because I'm a bit more overweight than I was when we met. He has told me I'm not attractive enough at the time being - just feel hurt as I've put a lot in this relationship and am giving no slack - anybody out there with similar experience?
2006-11-13 19:27:26 · 9 answers · asked by wildeend 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Loose the weight or find someone that digs fat chics!
2006-11-13 19:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave that guy because he only likes himself.
what a cruel thing to say to you
you really deserve better
he doesn't respect you or he wouldn't say such a horrible thing to you if he did.
if I were you I would get real fit & lose some weight & then buy some nice sexy outfits & parade around a bit in front of him but don't let him touch & then you should leave him
2006-11-13 19:50:53 · answer #2 · answered by ausblue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey if your physical appearence is that important to hi, ten go because you are the only one serious about the relationship and the fact is he probably only got into a relationship for materialistic reasons
sorry if I sound harsh
2006-11-13 19:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by whay i lost my ?s 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Get out now...and find someone who will love you regardless of weight. I understand you have 4 years invested in this relationship...but if he's saying this now, imagine what he will say in 14 years. He's not worth the time you're wasting...MOVE ON!!!
2006-11-13 19:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's not having sex with you, who is he having sex with? If he's having sex with nobody, then he's on drugs. (are you down on cash lately) Seriously.. 9months without sex is a long time for a man.
Honestly ladies... do you really have to ask these questions? Surely you know what the right answer is? If he's not treating you right, you have to leave. If you think you love him, you still gotta leave. He doesn't love you nor does anyone deserve to be treated like that.
2006-11-13 19:36:46 · answer #5 · answered by punkvixen 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt leave him yet but i would straighten his ass out. Cut him off from the sex for a while and tell him that what he said really hurt you. Tell him if he doesnt quit being a ******** than it is over. If he doesnt start treating you better than he wasn't worth it in the first place.
2006-11-13 19:30:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
damn that GUY!!! i will go.. this guy is wif u cos of yer looks! so wad if u r over weight!! my gf is overweight too but i dun care... cos i love her for her personality not her weight... lol it's a bit tough during sex but.. I DUN CARE... and if a guy realli loves u.. HE DUN CARE TOO!
so just move on...
2006-11-13 19:32:49 · answer #7 · answered by Nitesky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as a man,I tell you move on quickly.it is better for you.
good luck,you will find out a perfect man who care you more than himself.
2006-11-13 20:28:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i dun have the same experience as u but i guess tats wat all guys want from the gf.. good figure. rem if u wanna lose weight do it for urself n not others.. n he shd accept for who u r...
2006-11-13 19:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by astopsphere 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋