The main problem is that he loves me a lot & he is very emotional.
i also love him. when i refused to do so he got hurt but still he is asking me for the photo. what shall i do?
2006-11-13 19:25:00 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think the point is that you have to talk to him, make it politely and say you can't pose nude photos, and tell him the reason why you can't. Make sure you smile when you talk to him, OK? I don't agree with break up with someone without any reason.
2006-11-13 19:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T GIVE IT TO HIM! Simple, if he is asking you to do this and you don't want to then don't, at the end f the day if he has any respect for you he will agree with your choice.
ALSO wanting a nude photo of you isn't love, that's lust.
What happens if you split up, then he has a nude photo of you, it could end up on the Internet or anything, safety first no matter who asks you.
I am also concerned that this person is using emotions to manipulate you, no real person would get hurt by you having respect for yourself.
2006-11-14 03:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by JennyPenny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen I am a guy and I love, I mean LOVE picture of nude women. Having said that, do not give him the picture. No matter how much you love each other, if you break up you will regret it.
I have seen countless "ex-girlfriend nude pics" on the web. Your's will end up there too.
Even if you get the original back, there will probably be copies.
2006-11-14 03:29:08 · answer #3 · answered by Daniel and Fang Fang in China 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just give it to him, the worst that could happen, is you'll see it plastered on a bill board or on the top of a taxi cab somewhere. Oh well, at least you'll get some publicity. Who knows maybe you'll become famous and get to live in the Playboy Mansion.
2006-11-14 03:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
just say you are not comfortable with it,,what can he really do,,if he respects you he will give up but if you get pushed into it,,well,,it could be used against you if you ever split up,,as it was for a friend of mine,,all over town on the lamp-posts,,nasty......she had been with him 4 years and it was private between them,,as it should be but things can and sometimes do go wrong,,he even put one outside her daughters school,,now that is LOW.
2006-11-14 03:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by lex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no relation between a NUDE photo and LOVE.
Just ignore the request.
If he is adamant - leave him - he has some bad intention.
2006-11-14 03:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy - don't give it to him. Does a nude photo have to get in the way of love?
Or, give him your nude photo, if he gives you one of him. Is that a fair trade?
2006-11-14 03:27:47 · answer #7 · answered by tylersf 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seriously, there is always that chance that you two won't get married and stay together for eternity, so understand that there is a risk in giving the photo to him. ultimately the decision is yours, but a lot of people on this bored have strongly disagreed and said you shouldn't give it to him. i totally agree.
2006-11-14 04:46:48 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica C 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lol I'd tell him I lost it, or deleted it. Or tell him that what happened before you two met is in the past and you'd like to keep it that way. If he's wanting to take one of you, I'd tell him I'm not comfortable with that, and he should respect that. If he can't then I would most likely leave him.
2006-11-14 03:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by punky_boo_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is probaly "an actor in the local theatre"... hence he is playing the fool and just wants a nude pic of his girl to show his mates...
he doesnt need a pic if he has the real thing :)
2006-11-14 04:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by truthdefrag 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋