First I met Josh, it was love at fisrt sight, then he intoduce me to his twin Jack, Supricingly i felt in love to him to. They are not complainning for what I felt to both of them. We often spend the night together, the three of us. Yesterday, the ask me to marry them, I told them, how can I choose one of them while I love them both equaly so deeply. I'm so confuse, I know I can marry only one. Then they told me, not to choose, take them both. please advice.
2006-11-13 19:06:18 · 15 answers · asked by polygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well arent you in an odd situation....personally dont get married....if you are all happy to be a threesome stick with that...you shouldnt have to make a choice.....
but honestly i dont know who is sicker...you...or the twins.....
2006-11-13 19:08:31 · answer #1 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is true, and believe it or not a lady I work with had a similiar situation happen back in the late 80's when she was a teenager, they are just doing it for the sex and nothing more..
Trust me, 2 guys happy sharing you for pleasure will move on once they are ready to settle down and have a serious relationship..and it will not be with them sharing the same woman..
It sounds like you are very young, not even close to being an adult..
Im sorry that soon you will realise what is really going on and you will be hurt in the process..
2006-11-13 19:13:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart,u had better run for your life. coz realistically idont think these two twins are genuinely in luv withs you coz trust me a guy who truely loves u wouldnot like to share you and worst of all with a brother. its just an affair and i dont think that is what you want and dont lie to ur self because u cant love two guys at the same time,i guess its just a crush or an infacuation.
2006-11-13 19:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Brendar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW! never heard of this happening....I know you say you love them equally but there isnt a why that you do...Deep down inside you know you love one more than the other..YOU just gotta dig down deeper and find out who that one is....You dont want to hurt them as I understand but They shouldnt have put you in a situation to where you have been dating both..... Who ever you chosse the other one is going to be hurtt but you just gotta find who that one that you love more....Dig down deep into your heart pull out the guy that has the most effect on you..I am not knowing how it feels cause I am not gettng married or being asked to get married BUT. I am say you know who that one is and you just gotta let him know...The other one if he loves you like he says he does he will understand...
GOOD LUCK ....
Mackenzie
2006-11-13 19:12:50 · answer #4 · answered by Brittany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither marry any one of them. Just live with them together in a single roof home. Living together with them brings you complete happiness if you love and treat them both equally, and they love you too and never feeling of jealousy. How wonderful to live together with two loving guys.. never mind marriage.
2006-11-13 19:15:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of faculty I meet James. Quintuplets: 1st Boy: John Lucas 2d Boy: Jackson Liam third Boy: Jordan Lane 1st female: Savannah Natalie 2d female: Sophia Nicole all of them have blonde hair & green eyes! toddler Boy: Bentley Ryan. He has brown hair & green eyes!
2016-12-10 08:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by scheiber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about having your cake and eat it too! Unfortunately for you, having more than 1 wife or 1 husband is against the law. Whatever you do, don't lose them.
2006-11-13 20:11:47 · answer #7 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,,,dont choose...find other guys to whom u can have a normal love life...but if u really love them both (which is really fascinating), then do as they wish...dont choose, but i think u'll be the one to suffer in the future...anyway it shouldnt have happen in the first place coz its forbidden but since what's done is done...try to make the right move....a mistake cant correct another mistake...girl, ur situation is indeed crazy...y cant people live a normal life...anyway, that's what love does...making people sick...
2006-11-13 19:16:44 · answer #8 · answered by roj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both getting some; they're not going to stop and I'll make you a bet neither is going to marry you either.
2006-11-13 19:08:40 · answer #9 · answered by uknowme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow..
i don't think i can allow myself to be into that situation in the first place...
you better choose girl or better leave them...i believe that they are just doing this for fun...save yourself before it's too late! i don't think a man who loves you enough will allow himself to share you with anyone...MEN ARE NOT LIKE THAT!
2006-11-13 19:22:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋