actually being in love with a person or that feeling of infatuation that comes before you fall in love with a person. Keep in mind actually being in love/relationship can be stressful and that person can get on your nerves. Being in that infatuation stage is like floating on a cloud, but you never truly experience all of that person.
Not speaking from a current situation I'm, I'm just curious
2006-11-13 18:18:00 · 15 answers · asked by The Drake 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being in love. Infatuation is too painful.
2006-11-13 20:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Girl Machine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes being in a relationship can be very stressful, because once you are married then you have to live together and that's when you find out all those annoying things out about each other that you didn't know before.
But if you truly love one another then you can get pass this, but there has to be a lot of give and take on both sides, yes that infatuation does go after a time but if you work at your marriage then you become into something more wonderful
I hope this helps May God bless you and have a wonderful day
2006-11-14 02:33:20 · answer #2 · answered by jan d 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're both great feelings but I'd have to say the feeling of being in love/relationship. The infatuation stage only last for so long before it grows old and boring. I'd rather tough it out for a real relationship. Stress comes with the territory.
2006-11-14 02:40:07 · answer #3 · answered by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer the being in love phase, because although it can be stressful, it can be very rewarding too...it provides you with the sense of stability and security that you need...and you will always have somone you can count on...plus, if it is true love...it will last forever...
Infatuation, on the other hand, is only a stage and it will end...and thus does not provide the security and stability that being in love presents...
2006-11-14 02:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Need Help! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love.
There's something to be said about knowing my husband would do anything for me, the certainty of our relationship. The infatuation is great too, and with that usually comes the wild and crazy sex but it doesn't compare to that same person making love to you, knowing the two of you are one.
2006-11-14 02:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by princessslave 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THat's almost like comparing eating a delicious meal versus being completely satisfied with the meal afterwards. Which is better? They both have their benefits...the act of eating is great, but very short lived....being full or satiated lasts several hours, but being full can be stressfull...like gas and digestion, but you're not hungry or out looking for food....So, to answer the question, they both have their benefits, but you need to eat first to be full and likewise you are first infatuated with the person you eventually fall in love with.
2006-11-14 02:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the infatuation, because it is limited. But being in love is limitless. And is so much more than being infatuated. It is more intense, lasting, exciting, sensual, sexy, and just makes a person happy inside and out.
2006-11-14 02:27:14 · answer #7 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being in love with a person, because even though it can be stressful and they can get on your nerves, there is something about being with them that makes your day wonderful. It is the knowledge that all of that stress and hard work is worth it.
Happiness is about moments, and it is this that makes being in love so wonderful, because all those stressful moments outway the happy ones. And there is no way you can appreciate happiness without the hard work.
2006-11-14 02:24:17 · answer #8 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't like the uncertainty in the infatuation phase.
But I do like the anticipation and the feeling of victory when progress is being made.
2006-11-14 02:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by FSJD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd prefer the floating feeling for the chance of us being together would be there rather than the in-love feeling where the chances of us breaking will be at the back of my mind.
2006-11-14 02:22:45 · answer #10 · answered by Craiova 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋