Hey all, I am a Christian. I have made a commitment to have no sex before marriage (And not just coz of my religion). I want to make sure that when I get married I give my husband my ALL and if all goes as plan I'll even have my first kiss on my wedding day:) (And to be honest it feels great to be sweet 18 and never been kissed before). It is perhaps one of the most difficult things and often I feel that Im the only who is serious about no sex before marriage... So I just want to know how many people have made the same commitment as I?? All in all Im proud of my choice and I know it is the right thing...
2006-11-13 17:57:08 · 17 answers · asked by mist_faer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah you're right...
you have my 100% support.. i'm a muslim... yes it's true that my religion does not approved sex before marriage..but if we think logically, sex is bad before marriage... if we have sex before marriage and give all you have to a stranger man what is there left to share with your husband when you're married?? then what is it "marriage" means?? marriage to me means that we should share our feellings, children, sex, etc... but now a days many people prefer sex before marriage.and have kids before married.. to me that kind of people make marriage is meaningless....
2006-11-13 18:12:21 · answer #1 · answered by Princess G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two things: 1.) That's fine, if you don't mind the fact that after you get married, you may find that you and the man you marry are sexually incompatible; you waited all that time and kept yourself in a chastity belt but, that it's too late to do anything about it at that point...and,
2.) What does kissing(or sex, for that matter) have to do with Christianity or the decision to refrain from pre-marital coitus? If I remember correctly, the Bible says that Adultery(sex with a person OTHER than your spouse) is a sin, but I can't remember a chapter or verse that specifically condemns the act of sex if you aren't married. If that were the case, a victim of rape would be a 'fallen woman', even though she had nothing to do with voluntary participation!
2006-11-13 18:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yanno, I'm not a real Christian or anything, but for me, I've done the same thing, except without the kissing part LOL I love kissing XD I've wanted to have sex before, but I just, haven't been able to do it, because I know that I would only be happy and comfortable doing it with my future husband. So yeah, that's why I'm doing it LOL
2006-11-13 17:59:41 · answer #3 · answered by High On Life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats awsome waiting for the right one. I am also doing the samething as you are. I'm a christian who is 18. I never had a girlfriend,sex, or been kiss. I'm just like you just trying to find that special someone. It is very difficult to be single and waiting for that special someone. I'm glad that I have parents that kept me on the right track. I love God and Jesus very much. And I can't wait to go to heaven.
E-Mail me at jaguarsy2k@yahoo.com
I would like to know more about you.
2006-11-13 18:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made the right choice. Its just rare at this present generation that even kissing will have to wait until you're married but I respect your decision.
That will be a testament of giving yourself to your future husband how you valued him and yourself. Hoping for the best in all your future endeavours.
Best wishes.
2006-11-13 18:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do I do,,,, pick me I do,,,,
My wife was a virgin,,,,,I wasn't to happy about it at the time,,, I was 21 and had been active,,,, then I met pretty little Peggy Sue she was 17 and a virgin,,,, we dated over a year,,, it gave us allot of time to get to know each other we did kiss ,, allot at first but we had to slow down because IT was really hard on me,,, to get that excited,, then go home with out a release,,, very painful... so we would just hold hands and talk and a few kisses thrown in,, love that girl,,,,,
Saving yourself for marriage is the best way ,,,, you know the guy likes you for you ,,,
And like mom always told us desert is for after we eat all our dinner,,,,
2006-11-13 18:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by S h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is that I'm not your dad, but I'm still proud of you. I hope that my own daughter can make that same claim when she is grown. Props to you for not following the mainstream.
You are doing (I mean not doing!) the right thing.
Best wishes to you!
2006-11-13 18:02:38 · answer #7 · answered by stargazerjimbo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i won't be able to turn the clock back on that, yet i think of there is easily fee to the belief. however the international will do what the international will do, and regrettably very infants are pushed into feeling they might desire to be sexually lively way previously they are waiting. For myself, I a minimum of have faith a loving relationship is the region for intercourse.
2016-10-22 01:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is a very sacred thing that should be reserved for the one that you love. Once you get maried, it will be so special. I have vowed to keep myself moraly clean unitl i am maried, i respect you for you choice, and it leads me to ask, what religion are you? i mean, which branch of christianity.:)
2006-11-13 18:01:53 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r rite sex should be done after marriage. its the gift for husband and wife.
Just a pray for u that God gives u power to stay virgin for ur husband.
2006-11-13 18:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋