she is at 40 with a daughter and 10 yrs older than me. We are close to each other communicationally but not physically. I know love is blind so i cant see any problem with it. I want to know what you all great minds think. I'll appreciate your thoughts either way.
Thanks.
2006-11-13 16:59:11 · 10 answers · asked by talkz_me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good to go. 7 years difference here.
2006-11-13 17:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was 10 yrs younger I would say run away or just enjoy great sex. cause if younger you'd have to let her go through all her growing up, changes, etc.
but since she's older, she's ahead of you if anything or since you both click you are at the same maturity level even though 10 yrs apart.
I'd say go for it. Plus women live just about 12 yrs longer then men and to me its just wrong to leave one's wife sitting alone for 10 yrs in a retirement home. Lease this way you'll both age and bout die at the same time.
Just don't plan on her wanting more kids most likely. Rare women of this age want to go back to being a mom again.
2006-11-13 17:03:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband is 7 years younger than I am and we are great together. He is mature for his age while I am immature ;-) One big concern is whether or not you want to have your OWN biological children and whether she would be willing AND able to have more children. You should really think about this question and talk to her about it before you decide to take it to the next level. You not only have to worry about how it will affect her if the relationship doesn't work out, but how her daughter will feel if you become part of her life and then drop out of it. Give it serious consideration and do what's best for all involved.
2006-11-13 17:11:44 · answer #3 · answered by kbsss26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a woman who is 40 and her husband is 25 she has 5 kids from a previous relationship they dated for 2 years and are now married
2006-11-13 17:04:05 · answer #4 · answered by rufi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said u are close to her but do u know that she also likes u as the same as u like her their is no age limits in love but do u know the consequences after your marriage or if she will refuse u then what will happen ur physically closeness can harm her becoz she is of 40 and its too late for a child also.u
2006-11-13 17:09:25 · answer #5 · answered by sweetpoision 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicationally and living together are two different things. Can her daughter accept you? Will you treat her daughter like your own after your marriage? If you think you can then go ahead.
2006-11-13 17:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Cutebunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have kids also, if not do u want any? if you dont have kids but would like some and she doesnt want any...run now...been there done that...but if you both want the same things...go for it...
2006-11-13 17:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by di 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
been there doing it now . like anything else is this what you want? if so go for it. and take it as it comes
2006-11-13 17:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love knows no bounds, if you love her body and soul, it shouldnt be a question. good luck.
2006-11-13 17:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly bro, go for it....im serious...just go for it.
2006-11-13 17:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋