I am starting to freak out! I get married this sat. nov. 18 any suggestions on calming down. I am nervous anxious and freaked out all at once! HELP!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-13 16:35:56 · 18 answers · asked by hugs.girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
okay...my wedding is rose themed...Rose colored dresses (cranberry to be exact)roses on tables, rose petals scattered everywhere, I am really excited about it all, but my mom passed away when i was 16 and I don't talk to my dad, so i am so worried that will mak me sad on the happiest day of my life and I feel like i have a million things to do and i didn't take off of work this week, (I work at a daycare in the infant room) YIKES.
2006-11-13 16:46:12 · update #1
seriously...i am a girl...what do you mean about the strip club. Honey...I got everything I need in the man I am about to marry.
2006-11-13 16:49:07 · update #2
Hey I know what you mean I got married 5 months ago and I understand all that is going on. I am sorry to hear about your mom and your dad not being involved in your life. I understand why that would be difficult but I really hope that you can find the positive in that situation. You are about to marry the man of your dreams and he will them become your rock and foundation in your life. With your mom not being at your wedding that is not completely true she may not be there physically but she is there in spirit. You always can put a flower by her chair in her memory if your not doing something like that already. Unfortunately your dad wont be involved and I couldn't imagine what it would been like to not have my dad walk me down the aisle. Maybe you could try gettting a hold of him and explain what you feel and how much you want him there and maybe he would change his mind there is still time. If it doesn't work out that is something to leave in the past find some other male figure in your life who has meant alot to you and have them walk you down the aisle. Take time out to pray don't get over worked it works out so great in the end and you will get to enjoy your weding day if just allow things to happen. I know before the wedding atleast the hour before I was a wreck I was all done with my pictures and all i had to do was wait and it was hard and I even was grumpy with my wedding party. But the minister said this is the moment we've been waiting for and we had that kiss I had the hugest burden lifted off my shoulders and it was the coolest feeling ever. I can't even explain the rush you get when the wedding is through. Just love the last couple days take time for yourself and hang with some friends it will all work out. Good Luck and CONGRADULATIONS!!
2006-11-14 01:45:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lindsay H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, let me say Congratulations!
Now, to answer your question....
1. Get Organized! - The more organized you are the less you will worry that you have forgotten something. This doesnt mean make extra plans or work... just organize receipts, paperwork / contracts, contact info for all service providers, etc into a folder or something so they are easily found on the wedding day. (If they should be needed)
2. Get your sleep! - sleeping lets your subconcious work through the days stresses.... let it have enough time to do its job.
3. Eat right - If youre hungry, everything has a way of looking worse than it is.
4. Get your exercise - This has MANY benefits, you will be healthy, fit, and less stressed. Your body releases natural "feel good" endorphines when you exercise.
5. Remember nervousness & excitement are normal at this time, take a deep breath and try to relax.
If all else fails... go to a spa, find a good friend that will let you unload all your worries / excitement (that Maid of Honor is usually a great listener), read a book, take a nice relaxing bubble bath, or get some more exercise (I once had a bride that had so much "nervous tension" that she ran herself to exhaustion each evening so that she wouldnt think about it.... I dont recommend it for most people, but for her it worked).
Good Luck, youve done great. Have faith in yourself, everything is going to be fine.
2006-11-13 16:45:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Congrats and relax - try not to focus so much on the wedding day and think about the marriage itself and what it's going to mean to you. The wedding is just one day, and in the end it's just a big party really. All the guests remembers is how much they drank and who made a d*ck of themselves on the dancefloor...
The marriage though, well that's something special. This is the beginning of a new chapter in your life and you should take some time out to reflect on that before it happens. Maybe you should take some time off to be alone, or with a few close friends and just sit around and chat, have a few bevvies and put things into perspective...
Good luck, have a great wedding and above all, don't take it too seriously - it's meant to be fun, not nervous torture!
2006-11-13 16:53:07 · answer #3 · answered by the_fatmanwalksalone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all congratulations. Second, you have got to calm down. You are scaring yourself for nothing. What you need to do is take some deep breaths. Maybe you could go for a massage after work; maybe get a manicure or pedicure. When that is over, go home light some candles and soak in the tub with some bubble bath.
Your wedding day is gonna be the happiest day of your life. It is natural to miss your mom on that day, but don't let it get you down. She is watching over you and she is gonna be very proud of you.
2006-11-14 00:31:28 · answer #4 · answered by martini_40727 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax you'll be fine. The rose theme sounds perfect and you should remember this is 'your' day, don't let anyone or anything spoil that. Just realize that you'll have a great time and that there aren't that many days to go till you finally marry your man. Best of luck.
2006-11-13 18:46:05 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a day off and go to a spa with your best friend and DO NOT talk about the wedding plans!
2006-11-13 17:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by lpnblondie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats Go Relax and take yourself and a best friend to a spa! That should relax you Spa are there for people who need to relax
May Your Marriage Last for 70 years!
2006-11-13 16:39:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think of a few human beings here think of you prefer to be together with her till now the nikkah. which isn't what you're implying suitable?!?! i think of as quickly as the nikkah is finished and you wanna be together with her, then be together with her. Islamically you're allowed. the place in the Qur'an does it say subculture could override the religion's ideas?? If there is an ayat that announces that then i stand corrected. in any different case subculture shouldn't possibly rely in case you the two prefer to be collectively after the nikkah. Allahu Alaam
2016-10-17 06:15:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill, everything will be fine. The smartest thing is to stay off of here, concentrate on the work you have to do, and the time will pass quickly. Congrats!
2006-11-13 22:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
congrats...jst relax and let the people around do the work for you, jsut supervise..dnt stress much..yes, take their advise and got to a spa, unwind.
i'm getting married on January 2007...i'm nervous excited but i take them one at a time..
prayer of blessings to your wedding.
2006-11-13 18:10:51 · answer #10 · answered by enigma 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋