I met a girl today that i went to class with for the last maybe 2 months and never spoke to now today i was discussing things in class and i felt smart she seemed to be intrigued becuz i spoke to her as we walked out of class today and i was really attracted to her but didn't ask her for her #. should i next time i talk to her ask her out, even though it was so spontaeous and even though i really hav had my heart set on trying to get back with another girl i've known for so long that i kno better? Is it possible to feel so strongly about someone without even really knowing them and is it okay to be "in love" kinda with 2 ppl at the same time?
2006-11-13 16:33:55 · 8 answers · asked by genpattonwwii 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey... youv'e got a date with your dream gal!! Gee.. one at a time!
2006-11-13 17:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a fine line between spontanious and creepy. The best thing you can do is not assume that she is "in love" with you, but think of it as having potential for a strong relationship to build into romance. You have the opportunity to build a great relationship with someone you just met. now the thing is "should you ask her fr her number?" Maybe not too soon since she may not want to give her number to a random strainger. Instead, talk to her as often as you can. Ask her open-ended questions (who, what, when, where, why, how), and talk about intrsting things as apposed to boring stuff like school or work. Once you create an attraction ask her for her number. It shouldn't take more than a week if you do it everyday. Good luck.
2006-11-14 02:05:22 · answer #2 · answered by Marcus O 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, my advice is this: that chemistry you just felt is called lust. You only felt that way because she gave you a little attention. Work on the relationship you already have. If the new girl liked you, she would give you more signs than that.
2006-11-14 00:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by neff_crystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is never an easy thing. Sure it's possible to like more than one person. And there's nothing wrong with it. You're not married right? So, liking more than one girl and dating more than one girl is perfectly ok. That's why you date. To find the one who is really your soul mate. Don't beat yourself up over this.
2006-11-14 00:40:03 · answer #4 · answered by jare bare 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's called hormones.
Common horniness. It doesn't mean anything else, because plenty of us have had this kind of instant attraction, started a relationship iwth that person, then later finding out that she's a psychopath.
2006-11-14 00:41:52 · answer #5 · answered by dork 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I doubt you're in love with both of them. You are attracted to both of them. A good test of love is asking yourself who you would die for. If you don't have anything to lose, ask her for her number. IF you already have another girlfriend, go with that. Whatever you do, pick one and stick with it. Good luck!
2006-11-14 00:39:05 · answer #6 · answered by Luckiest_Wife_EVER 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be their proverbial "SPARK".. yes, yes, yes.. You will understand better around 24.
- just be considerate of everyones feelings and emotions.
- good luck.
2006-11-14 00:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by gjm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
same situation here!!!!!!my crush is gonna leave his gf for me!!!!!!!!! however attracts u best!!!!:)
2006-11-14 00:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Hootersbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋