my ex bf wrote me an email saying he wishs not to talk to me anymore and to leave him alone so in the past i would fight and cry about it but now that i'm over our relationship and experiencing life more (i just turned 18) i see there's nothing to cry about so i wrote him back saying ok and said i respect that and take care in life...well he wrote back saying don't act like that then he said whatever you said bye????is it me or did he go back on his word and try to twist it on me like i was the one who kicked me out my life when i would never say something like that to him ever??i'm still sticking by my decision and now i feel like i'm being an ***** about it when he's treated me wrong and i don't know if i should apoligize or let it go i'm too nice a person to be mean to anyone ...i know it's not much of a question but a little advice would help...thanks to anyone who answers
2006-11-13 16:33:23 · 6 answers · asked by USAF1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well if you let him go why would you hang on to these feelings, if you have chosen to let go then you need to let go of it all. He sounds childish anyway to me.
-NmD!
2006-11-13 16:35:40 · answer #1 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously is a attention whore/control freak, he saw how by doing whatever he was doing he was making you feel bad and thus making you come to him more and more, he want to be chased and wanted and needs to go to a hospital, a mental one...you're doing nothing wrong but loving your self and being alot stronger, just push it a little more and believe in your self more and kick him ALL the way out of your life, he probably have more sick trick on his hand now that you can think for your self so plz plz dont let him manipulate you like that again, pssst...he wish that all girls want his sorry @$$ but thats not true so he just use you to satisfy his sick fantasy...be strong
2006-11-14 00:38:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The more you answer him and jump through the hoop of "explain what you meant by that comment", the more you write to him, which obviously is exactly what he wants, for whatever reason.
Stop trying to figure him out - he is playing games and life is too short for idiots who like to play those juvenile stupid games. Even if you could figure him out 100% you'd sit back and go, "I spent all that time figuring out *this* doofus? He isn't even worth it! Ack!"
Just move on and don't respond at all. Who cares what he calls you. (you, if you keep writing back.)
2006-11-14 00:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him to stew in his own juices. As of right now you have the upper hand because you aren't being childish.....Never apologize for how you feel.
2006-11-14 00:38:27 · answer #4 · answered by LoquaciousFirehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be concerned with his response. It makes no sense at all. It's over.......done......finished.
MOVE ON. Enjoy your new found freedom and independence!
2006-11-14 00:38:52 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him be. move on. simple.
2006-11-14 00:37:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋