What can I do if I hate my life?

Question

It seems like nothing i do is right. my parents or any other family members dont understand me. Im the smartes one in the family but Im always insulted, they tell me im useless and stupid and I know im not but i feel like I cant live on like this anymore.... I wanna move out or just plain kill myself..... though I cant do either. Im too proud to resort to tears but they just come out now... i feel terrible and no one cares..... what should I do??

Answer 1

your like all young people

Answer 2

do not give up on life, u'll just be loosing if you do. It's like damned if you don't and damned if you do. The best thing to do is think positive and be your own best friend. I'm sure there's somebody that thinks you're a good person. Think about the nice things people did or have done for you in the past. My parents say to always count your blessings. Also, get involved in a hobby that you like, for yourself. Treat yourself because if you don't love yourself, then what would happen to you? You'll be with yourself for a while until your death. What I'm saying is that life is too short to worry (if you put it in a short summary). If you died tomorrow, would you regret that you didn't enjoy it? Of course! Plus, why not look into God and pray? Also, join some clubs that might help you with your making friends. Talk to the school counselor, that's what they are there for. If not, talk to the college counselor. Above all, love yourself, because you're going to be with yourself for as long as you live. Think about your future and how nice it's going to be. If you have a goal that you don't met, so what? There's a book I have called the "HAPPY BOOk" and that's one of the advices it had. I got it 4 years ago when I was 18 and it helped me alot!

Answer 3

Alright you're struggling with a dilemma that all of us has had to deal with in our lives,and it's not easy. What your family is doing is wrong, understand that, but how you feel about yourself is more important, do you have something in your life that is only yours? can you get out of the house more so you're not around them as much?. what you have to do is find something in your life that is uniquely yours and delve yourself totally in it. I mean you know you aren't all the things these people say about you right? you are worth something, you are unique and you're not alone. Eventually you'll have your own life, away from these people and it'll be your choice whether you deal with them or not. I went through the same thing as a teenager and eventually you'll understand that there is something wrong with them that is making them this way towards you not the other way around. I don't know how old you are, but trust me, hold on, and you'll be out of the house and away from them soon enough. Be strong and confident in yourself and again, trust me life is worth living, you would lose so much and lose out on so many good experiences if you were to end it now. So stay strong, it won't last forever, even though it doesn't seem like it now.

Answer 4

Wow...that's some request!

My first advice to you is to quit beating up on yourself, okay? You do not deserve self-deprecation, so quit it. Got it?

Good.

Now for the next item: the only way that people cannot make a mistake is to be 6 feet under. People do not start out the day saying, "Wow, I'm going to toally louse up my life today." Far from it. If you make a choice and it does not turn out right, then learn from it and go on -- the mistakes we make in life can sometimes be our best teachers. And, yes, even the smartest people make mistakes.

Thirdly (and please pay attention to this): DO seek professional help with the way you feel about yourself, and do it today -- don't let the sun go down without talking to someone about your feelings. Suicide is never a good solution for whatever you feel about yourself, for it harms everybody around you.

And yes, there ARE people out there who care for you (and I am one of them or else I would not write back)! A lot of times when we feel sad and depressed, we fail to notice the ones who love us. I've been there myself, so I can say this with some authority.

I wish you good luck and God bless...

Answer 5

Well killing your self aint the answer. But if your family aint appreciating what u do than you keep going on with your life cause you dont have to prove to nobody but your self. And if your tired of living there than move out if your old enough and if you have a job. Just remember this ok always no matter what life goes on so always keep your head up. Dont let nobody put you down. keep a big smile up then they will see that no matter what they say or do your still smilling . hope this makes sence.

Answer 6

1. Don't let anyone steal your dreams. People who build themselves up at the expense of another are the lowest of the low.

2. Come to the realization that you are the only problem you'll ever have and you are the only solution. Decide on where you're at; what you want and how you're going to get there.

3. Start hanging out with more positive success minded people. You are who you associate with.

4. Don't be afraid of your emotions...they make you human.

5. Look into how to goal set and start setting them.

6. Dress for success.

7. Take me time...you're important.

8. Seek positive moral support.

Answer 7

Don't hate your life, love your life. God gave you a life for a reason. He has plans for you. He won't reveal it to you yet but you will know. I'm sorry you feel no one cares and that you have families who insult you. Did you ever tell your family how you feel when they insult you? My 12 and 6 year old always reminds me that I'm getting angry and that they love me. That makes me feel so stupid. You know what...there are people who do care and I am one of them. Why do you think I responded? I'm sure there are alot who cares, because they're responding your question. Oh yeah, there's this one guy who does care and He loves you very much....His name is Jesus! If you should ever feel down and alone, just find that bible(basic instructions before leaving earth) in your house and get into it. Get involved with school activities, talk to your counselors, talk to one of those Jesus freaks kids in school. Take care!;)

Answer 8

Ther are greater losses in life. You seem like a strong person and should not resort to suicide. Things will eventually get better. Surround yourself with friends. Find the local Alliance Against Violence for free theraphy. Good Luck! Be more positive.

Answer 9

Thanks for asking & being so honest. I would say that if you consider yourself to be the smartest, then why would you consider your situation as suicidal? Just hang on tight to what peace you have in life & complete your studies & your day will come. Your concentration on the negative needs to get a bit of breathing space so start focusing on you rather than them. If they really are as nasty as you say they are then by you focussing on things good for you, they will be forced to change. Once you are done with your studies you will be ready to move out & be your own person bound by no restrictions arising from matters of the home & family. I wish you find peace through concentration, prayer & hope. Good Luck.

Answer 10

Grow a backbone and get yourself together. Work hard to move out on your own proving everything wrong they thought about you. It won't be easy it wil be hard as hell especially with no support but plenty have done it. Stop allowing what is around you to cripple you. The situation you ar ein should not hold your mind captive in believing that there is no hope. I'm saying this because I've been there and even thought about committing suicide. But i decided that what I'm around does not make the person I am. I worked hard to get on my own and now I love it. No ones opinions or ideas fro my life but my own. This type of freedom is a beautiful thing

Answer 11

What can I do if I hate my life? Don't hate it...Think about it...U'r alive and typing on Yahoo Questions...some people can't do that.Just take it eazy... Everyone goes thru those phases (and I call them PHASES because they won't last).U sound like ur in ur young girl years...if u are... then relax and take it one day at a time...u'll wish u had that time again...I am 22 and I wish I was 2 again...no job,no worries,etc etc etc etc...the list goes on.Just remeber this saying no matter what and really think about it:

something/somebody can only bother u if YOU LET IT.
YOU CHOOSE HOW UR GOING TO FEEL THAT DAY REGARDLESS OF HOW BAD S%*# IS!