Should two people enter into a relationship if one is used to being alone and the other is used to being in long term relationships. Should the one that is used to being alone push the other away or should the person used to being in long term relationships give the one that is used to being alone, time to adapt? Both people enjoy conversation and time spent when they are together.
2006-11-13 15:44:37 · 14 answers · asked by mz. t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Change is inevitable in all our lives whether we like it or not. Allow each other some alone or down time when needed or wanted. And both of you need time to adapt to these changes but change can be a very good thing. That's another way of learning is through change. Not just learning about others but about ourselves also. Good luck to you both in this new found relationship.
2006-11-13 15:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say both would need time to adapt, as with any new relationship. Each relationship is different, with people interacting in a differing manner, which makes every relationship unique!
I wouldn't suggest walking away from pursuing a relationship simply because you are used to being alone or with someone for an extended period of time. As every relationship begins with the unpredictability of whether it will last or not...
And a word of hope..... I am now married to my man, who had been single for 7 years when we met, and I had just ended a 6 year relationship. So you never know!
2006-11-13 15:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by quest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Ms T. I think you need to ask yourself if you want to be all alone...by yourself....permanently. If you'd prefer that, then don't encourage an ongoing relationship with anyone else. But! If you're wanting to be with someone....at least some of the time and perhaps grow old with them.... You should find some middle ground where you can be happy and so can your partner. It seems to work well for Oprah.....lol.... Oh, Im just kidding. lol... Really, I often prefer to be alone to do my own thing (which is stitching); but then there are times I enjoy a pleasant conversation or even some quiet company! Good luck to ya! Brenda
2006-11-13 16:15:13 · answer #3 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is currently my story... I was in a 12 year relationship which I ended 3+ years ago. I have been living by myself for all this time and have learned to enjoy it. Now I am seeing someone who is more used to living with someone and is dropping hints that he would like to move in with me. We spend 2-4 nights together now at my place and for now that is enough. I think that whatever feelings develop between you will decide what you both should do. There should never be a rushed feeling to make the decision though.
2006-11-13 15:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it should be a two way thing. the person who loves to be in the long relationships, should give the other some time to adapt, and vice versa with spending time together. if anything start slow and steady, wouldnt want a good thing to end before it began.
2006-11-13 15:48:23 · answer #5 · answered by peachiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-22 01:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well,in my opinion,the answer would be 'no'.
the relationship might look good at present.
but in the long run, it might not work out well.
and it will take hell a lot of time to get adapted to one another's environment after so many years of staying in their own area. and the adaption period will be very torturing for both. I dont think its worth the struggle.
this is just my view. opinions vary.
2006-11-13 15:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by swtsvn1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should both continue to hang out together and work out how much contact is a good middle ground. You will both need time to adapt.
2006-11-13 16:47:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good match where both can learn from each other.
2006-11-13 15:48:38 · answer #9 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends...If I'm one person and the othe is a really hot chick, I'd go for it. Hell, she'd have to burn down my house and burn all my stuff just to get rid of me.
2006-11-13 15:48:21 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋