my boyfrind and i have been together for 15 months he told me when he was younger he used to be into a few drugs but he stop before we met. Now it seems he's back to his old ways first it started with smoking pot only occasionally now its every week. i dont like it at all coz iv been in relationships like that before and he knows i dont like it. i want to stay with him but what is the best way to talk to him about it i dont know how to address it? help????
2006-11-13 15:42:26 · 6 answers · asked by carolyn t 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't like it, don't smoke it.
If you don't like someone else smoking it, then try learning about it.
It's not very harmful - the biggest danger by far is from the police state!
2006-11-15 17:36:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, He never stopped using.
I went through it. I am a recovering drug addict. I used to lie to my girlfriend all the time, getting high when she was not around.
If you really want to stay with him, ask him to go to detox, or get counseling. If he wants to be with you then he will go. If he refuses then you should move on for your safety and sanity.
If you leave him stick to it do not take him back for nothing even if he says later that he will go to counseling because he probably is high and will lie to get back with you.
I recommend that you only take him back if he asks you to accompany him to the counseling after you split with him. If he is doing the counseling than he probably realized what you mean to him and wants to be with you and respects you for your beliefs.
Good Luck!!!!!!!!!!
I hope you will be happy with your decision.
You deserve better.
2006-11-13 16:05:34 · answer #2 · answered by kozydawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its seems that ask him to choose you or the pot doesn't seem to work.it might backfire.You need to help stay by his side and help him.The addiction can get worse,if he could quit when he was younger,i'm sure he could do it now,plus you are by his side.No point talking,just go to his place and throw all his drugs away,flush them way,do whatever to get rid of them.That the best solution
2006-11-13 15:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Janet Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "Plz don't smoke that around me and plz don't let me catch u smelling like that. If u really care about me and u want me to stick around than just listen to my demands plz". Thats what I said to my ex bf when he started to smoke that we brokeup b/c he was a violent drinker as well.
2006-11-13 15:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was with my ex for a while and never minded the pot but then he moved up to other things....since then i see pot as just the beginning stages of harder drugs...better off without him...
2006-11-13 16:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Today is weed, tomorrow it's something else.
You know the outcome of relationships like this, why go through it again ?
2006-11-13 21:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sunflower 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋