ok here it goes. i was dating this guy for 2 yrs. he has done alot to mess up our relationship. he has lied alot, and i mean alot. ok everytime we would make love he would go and do something else that would cause me not to trust him. so i got tired of feeling hurt. so i tild him i dont want to have sex for a while until i see he can be trusted. well he was staying with me and decided on multiple occasions to delay in helping with the bills. which in return caused me to have to whine and ask repeatedly was he going to help. wel last week he said he would. no money. two days ago he said he would. no money. today he said he would give it to me. no money. normally he doesnt ask me to make love when he gets off work, but he did today and i said no. so he said he would give it to me tommorrow. so i said what are you trying to pimp me. he said no. in the end i asked him to leave my house. i feel if he was staying here he should help. now hes the one who is mad. what do you think?
2006-11-13 15:41:29 · 7 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK THAT HE HAS A LOT OF OF DAM NERVE TO THINK THAT YOU CAN STAY ANY WHERE WITHOUT PAYING SOMETHING. HE NEED TO HELP PAY THE BILLS.. AS FOR
HIM GET MAD. TELL HIM THAT YOU REALLY DONT CARE
HOW HE FEEL. YOU ARE RIGHT IF HE WANT TO STAY
THERE HE NEED TO HELP. OTHER WISE GOOD RIDDEN
TO A PROBLEM. AND IF YOU DONT TRUST HIM THAT
MORE THEN A GOOD REASON TO KICK HIM TO THE
CURB.
2006-11-13 15:52:39 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may feel used.Look at it from his perspective.Does he have his own place?If so,,pay your own bills.Does he live with you?If so,,he needs to help out.If he just stays the night after sex,,you want him to pay the bills?If he leaves,,you withhold sex.If you two dont live together,,I dont think you are ready for that.Do you buy all the food?Or does he meet you half way or sometimes treat you?Maybe you catch him lieing because he doesnt know what to say to you because either way,,he would be wrong.I got a gut feelingthat he's not such a bad guy.I dont really think he wants to give you money but doesnt want to talk about it because he doesnt want a fight & doesnt want the relationship to end.I dont know,,over all,,Id say give him a chance,,dont expect him to pay your bills & follow your instincts,,Hmmm,,If you take his $,,you think he's pimpin'lol.
2006-11-13 15:56:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl been there done that. Kick that ***** out if he ain't a hlp he's a hinderance. Not to mention all the emotional bullshit he has already put you through. My advice to you dump him and go at it by yourself for a while. Proviving for yourself will boost you confidence and self esteem and you'll start to want the kind of man that is able to do at least what you are, running the household by yourself. Nobody wants a man that has nothing. Sorry to say it but you are nothing but a free ride a place to lay his head at night when everyone else has told him no.
2006-11-13 15:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by keyswannaknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will have to keep at Chelsea and he desires to. The simplest 'barrier' in an effort to talk is the truth that Chelsea haven't begun to position an present at the desk and reportedly instructed him he would begin to seem for different golf equipment subsequent season for the period of the Club World Cup. News is rising that as a result of his up to date performances, Chelsea are inclined to present him a brand new one 12 months agreement. He is a intelligent man and I suppose it could advantage him largely to play on the maximum stage feasible at the same time he can, in particular if he desires to make the 2014 World Cup squad. Even in the event that they deliver him a mild pay reduce, I suppose given the risk he will have to keep at Chelsea.
2016-09-01 12:11:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was using you for a booty call and a free place to stay. Sounds like you got yourself a player. Get rid of him and move on. He lies, he makes promises he can't keep, I don't blame you one bit for not trusting him. If you can't trust him today, you can't trust him tomorrow, or the next or the next. Get out while you still can.
2006-11-13 15:45:17 · answer #5 · answered by s w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave him.... he obviously doesnt care for you or himself...never settle for less. you WILL BE VERY UNHAPPY WITH him trust me
2006-11-13 15:45:32 · answer #6 · answered by i_am2die4 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing.
2006-11-13 15:44:46 · answer #7 · answered by flutterby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋