Its not like I care if a girl just talks to my boyfriend... he has this co-worker who clearly wants him if he gave her the chance. I can trust him but it just bugs me that he doesn't stop her from saying things to him like "nice ***" and "I like to pretend you are single" The woman is disgusting, she cheats on her husband any chance she gets. I dunno i guess im not jealous just bothered that he even considers her as a friend bc she only wants one thing from him.
2006-11-13 15:39:14 · 12 answers · asked by Ceres 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not here to promote violence or anything but...beat the crap outta her. Sheesh. Enough is enough.
2006-11-13 15:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why does he consider her a friend? If he knows she's overstepping the appropriate boundaries of a "friendship", which is rightfully hurtful to you, why would he consider that "friendly" behavior, I wonder? Second, a woman that "regularly" cheats on her husband (according to you) isn't really a very nice woman when you think about it. What are her qualities? Third, men and women friendships need to be clearly defined. What is the nature of their friendship? Are you a friend of the woman and her husband as a couple? If so her husband is getting the short end of the deal. All in all this sounds like an unhealthy situation that needs figuring out soon. I don't know how you're not supposed to get "jealous" about this one.
2006-11-13 23:58:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you said that you trusted him so there is actually no reason to be either upset or jealous so easily. I'm sure that your man is aware of this woman's remarks and just takes them as they are, a compliment from a skank that he would want nothing to do with. But the fact is that although it could be considered as a form of sexual harassment it is very difficult for a male to report this type of behaviour. Besides he has to work with this woman so he maybe figures that as long as he plays along that it won't affect their working relationship. Sad fact is also that your man is also doing the other males there a favour as if she is bugging him the she is leaving them alone. Discuss your feelings with him and allow him to put your mind at ease.
2006-11-13 23:46:38 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him how he'd like it if you worked with a guy friend who talked to you like that!!!
Stop trying to find out what the co-worker says, then you won't be irritated!
He probably tells you what she says because he likes to see your jealous reaction!
2006-11-13 23:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Lucky 7 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i understand if she is coming on tho your man like that?what a wierdo..its probably cool and hes just not wanting to say anything just so a problem dosent get started at work..but dang if its bothering you that much,really try talking to your man in a nice calm way and let him know its bugging you,,or just go and stomp a new hole in her(joking i do not condone violence)
2006-11-13 23:45:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is disgusting i would tell the husband or beat the living **** out of that hoe!!! Compliments are nice but they should be appropriate especialy if ur man is taken!
2006-11-13 23:44:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He not only needs to tell her to knock it off, but he needs to tell his supervisor as well. That's sexual harassment. Maybe he's too embarrassed? He needs to put an end to that stuff right now. You have every right to be upset.
2006-11-13 23:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by two_kee_kees 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes you have no control.....its love...and there is nothing wrong with putting up your guards...just dont let her get to close...cause these men are sometimes tempted...the devil is an evil person......jealousy is not a pretty thing....there must be no trust..for whatever reason.....cause then you really wouldnt worry about it......jealousy is ok..its normal..just dont let it get out of hand ....just keep loving him as much as possible if you dont want him to wander.
2006-11-13 23:51:36 · answer #8 · answered by mspain719 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he don't likes her right..
just ignore the girl..
you can always have a talk with your bf regarding this issue and make everything clear and just forget bout it..
she is just bitching around hoping you break with ur bf..
2006-11-13 23:43:20 · answer #9 · answered by lemonieHm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww i know how you feel hun!!! I hate when women are like that...if he has any sense he'll see her for the hoe she is....you are worth so much more in his eyes I'm sure!
2006-11-13 23:44:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋