2006-11-13 15:38:28 · 11 answers · asked by sarapereznj 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
are you forgiven?
2006-11-13 15:42:20 · update #1
It is the same as any other sin that you commit.
As Christians, we still sin. What we are supposed to be doing is looking forward to less and less sin in our lives. Each time we "see" the sin in our lives we are to work toward eliminating that sin.
Now, you say that this is your fiance. Do you have an absolute wedding date? If so, you may think of yourselves as firmly committed to one another. If this is the case, in Gods eyes and in your hearts you are already married. If you both do not feel married and committed to one another for life in your hearts, stop what you are doing in the lust and desire department, because something is wrong.
You will find a common theme in the bible when it comes to sin and Gods reaction to it. God sees the hearts of his children, not the outside acts. What you know and feel in your heart is where true sin occurs.
2006-11-13 15:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by cindy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a Bible-believing Christian, you won't be doing ANYTHING to cause you to sin. ! Corinthians 6&7, Galatianns 5, Ephesians 4, Colossians 3, and I thessalonians will tell you more about self-control and sin.
AA has a saying, "Move a muscle, change a thought." Move away from the situation before you do something you might regret!
2006-11-13 23:45:56 · answer #2 · answered by curious cat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it says so in the bible.... But you are only human..... You know what is right and what is wrong wether or not you involve your god.....
The questions you must ask yourself is this..... At the time did it feel good and when it was all over how did you feel.... If you felt guilty then it was wrong..... However if it felt good and you want to do it again then you must question your relationship with god
2006-11-13 23:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by turmoilwithin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All sin is the same in God's eyes
2006-11-13 23:40:58 · answer #4 · answered by Abbasangel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to question something on whether it is right or wrong; Then more than likely it is probably wrong to do/sinful.
2006-11-13 23:44:16 · answer #5 · answered by Just Me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont tell i wont tell- oh yeah!
the ten commandments sweetie--- theres nothing that says no heavy petting... only sexual intercourse is banned unless you are married...and this is the greatest thing in history most married couples had sex before they got married, in fact most got married because the man impregnanted the woman--- especially in the 1600-1700s
2006-11-13 23:42:15 · answer #6 · answered by ChuckNorris 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I don't think it is. But here my opinion doesn't count.
I would say just do what feels right to you. Just consider your morals and try to decide whether or not you feel guilty.
2006-11-13 23:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by Kiya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's an abomination like eating pork. You're hellbound for sure.
2006-11-13 23:43:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not if you are promised to each other.
It is better to marry than to burn.
Christ watches over us, ennobling us with his presence.
Honour him in return.
If you can't wait, you better get to the minister quickly!
2006-11-13 23:45:11 · answer #9 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Taking the Bible literally, YEP!
You're every bit as bad as a homsexual, rapist, murder, thief!
2006-11-13 23:40:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋