is it ok to not like a person for being a mama's boy? i mean a huge mama's boy. he wil only see me like once very 2 months cuz of her is it his fault (we r 15)? if it is or isnt can i dislik f for it?his mom has tawt him she and my mom to intervene every time me & him have a problem with eachother, my mom goes along with it i hate it so much. most 15 yr. olds cant stand their parents. i cant stand mine more tham most, and he just luuuuuuuvs his mom. goes everywhere with her all weekend to the most stupid places like the beauty parlor and the supermarket. he also goes other places that are "family problems" and are a secret to me. but watever the probs r, y duz she need a teen w. her? i dont no how his dad died. i cant help but find very unatractiv, i mean not as just a opposite-gendr atraction thing, also just if i was to be just frends with him. his dad is gone, i dont no where but stil i mean he IS a mamas boy. is that an ok xcuse can i dislik him for it can i reject him for it HELP
2006-11-13 15:36:07 · 6 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Reject away!!! He will be the better person for it and you sound like a little selfish brat!
2006-11-13 15:41:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is not right for you then you have every right to stop seeing him. At 15 a girl or a guy should spend some time with their family. If he was 25 or 30 then you would have a big problem. You never have to ask other people how you should live your life that is for you to decide. Some people who give smart hateful answers don't even know how to live their own life.
2006-11-14 00:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not okay. If his dad is dead then he probably feels the need to take care of her. He is the man in her life now. That is a great quality in a man. That doesn't make him a mommas boy. That makes a smart young man who from the sound of it deserves someone a little more mature than you are.
2006-11-13 23:48:13 · answer #3 · answered by dixie.doll84 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his a closet gay person and just doesnt know it yet.
This is what happens when you get brainwashed by a parent with over-doting. It's fine to love your parent and all, but he has zero independance.
If you really like him, you can try to work on him and get him to be more independant, but you will need to read up on psychology and anti-brainwashing techniques for use on cultists in order to begin to change how he lives.
It would normally be impossible for most adults, but at 15 there is still a slim chance you can make a difference.
2006-11-13 23:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
people become their parents when they grow up, sooooooooo if you don't like his mom,you don't like him either,it's just lust and that goes away pretty fast. look for someone who's parents you like and you'll find a keeper. i did and we will be celebrating 30 yrs together in January.
2006-11-14 00:24:13 · answer #5 · answered by ruthlessworthy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his father is dead!!! you honestly wonder why he likes hanging out with his mom? you are inconsiderate, selfish and stupid. probably best you leave him alone.
2006-11-13 23:47:31 · answer #6 · answered by gabriela 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋