was seeing ths guy and one day I text messaged him about my earrings, and then left him a voicemail explaining that i needed to know if they were at his house,because i was wearing them to go out, he text messaged me five minutes later and told me not to call him anymore, because he did not like me and that he would tell my sorority sisters about our relationship...and he would tell other people as well, and that I should know that he has a girlfriend and she is a member of my sorority(keep in mind that i did not know he had a girl,so the next day I get a call(from his best friend) who is also one of my sorority sisters calls me and invites me to an event that he was hosting? And I 'm like this is weird, because she has never called me..So What do you think was the cause of his/her behavior? do you think she knows something, or maybe he told her something,?Or was it a coincidence that she calls me asks me to go out with her after I ahdn't heard from her in over eight months
2006-11-13 15:33:07 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetladi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just to add , when I intially text messaged me, after I asked him about the earrings, he said you didn;t thank u, that's exaclty what he text then, I asked him if he could look around at his house, I waited for a few hours and never got a response, so then I left him a voicemail, explaining that my mom gave me those earrings, and I needed them because I was going out later on that night on a date, then five minutes later I get a text message, from him saying exaclty don;t call me anymore, I asked him damn, why? what happened? and the first thing he said was , I don't like u, and he told me that if I called hima gain, he would put my business out in the street, and he would tell all my sorority members, and then went on to say that he does have a girlfriemd,. and she is a member of my sorority...
plus when I did fina;;y return his best friend calls, she said that she wanted me to go help out with this politcal rally he happended to be hosting, and then she lied and said it was over.
2006-11-13 15:34:02 · update #1
I just want to add that the girl who caleld me is just his best friend..and he made the whole I have a girlfriend and she is aprt of your sorority , is a lie, because I talk to them.
2006-11-13 15:45:27 · update #2
Leave the ****** alone, he obviously has something to hide. Don't stress this wont be the last time you have to deal with an immature man!
As far as the event goes, don't go...sounds like a set-up of some sort.
2006-11-13 15:38:02 · answer #1 · answered by Feeling Froggy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got caught out there cheating on his girlfriend. He threw away the earings and he is stuck on what to do and how to hide the situation because he girl knows whats up. He prob didnt know that you two were in the same sorority. I made this mistake twice in my life. Both girls were smoking hot, but I lost them both cause I made that mistake, but I never really cared about them except for sex.
2006-11-13 23:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is more than one possibility here. Also, this is way too much info to read unless you want to become a writer. He has been playing you and may be doing it to others the same way. He is definitely not a person you need to know for any length of time.
Be thankful you can get rid of this idiot. He thinks he's a player. He sounds like trash to me. Try to find another way to get your property back, like Judge Judy.
2006-11-13 23:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl you have an odd life, maybe you saying you were going on a date with some one wigged him, maybe he thought you were his personal toy or something...
2006-11-13 23:38:17 · answer #4 · answered by nitronuke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds likie a bunch of drama to me.. this is why i don't have female friends.
2006-11-13 23:36:53 · answer #5 · answered by armywifehaney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋