My friend caught her boyfriend cheating...did she overeact?
She was brutally cheated on in her last realationship. When she found them sleeping together, she started throwing up, crying, and just went crazy on both the guy and girl. If you were cheating and your girlfriend or boyfriend started doing this....how would you feel? Would you cheat again??
In other words if you were the cheater how would feel seeing her reaction?
2006-11-13 15:10:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would feel very bad, and would never cheat on her again. and i would be scared for her health.
2006-11-13 15:13:11 · answer #1 · answered by kurtball2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all honesty, I would think "Jeez, no wonder I was so unsatisfied with her I felt the desire to cheat." and dump her *** right there. Throwing up over something like that? That's a little more than I'd wanna take.
2006-11-13 23:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long time ago, i had a boyfriend who brutally cheated me by sleepimg with one of my friends.....in MY bed (his own bed was in his room at the end of the hall)
Yes, I puked and cried and was sooooooo deeply hurt and humiliated. Finding out that he cheats is one thing, but seeing it with your own eyes is too much to handle.
Anyway, my reaction made him feel realy guilty and bad about himself. He left me, because he decided that I deserved a better man................. just great.................. (now that i have matured, i think he was too much of a coward to fix what he broke).
She's got to dump the guy, because he does not respect her. Is he bored already? Or is he too scared to commit? Either way, she should not put up with it.
2006-11-13 23:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for the friend how is she gonna trust any guy now! if i was a cheater which iam NOT for sure never gonna be but answering your quesstion i would feel really bad, embarrassed, ashamed, worthless!
2006-11-13 23:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by LiL' JON 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only had 3 gf's ever and all of them have cheated on me leaving me to die basically so the advise I can give to you would be to tell your friend to set her standards higher on guys she chooses to be close to, really get to know the guy before she gets involved with him.
2006-11-13 23:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I caught my gf cheating, I would torture the guy until he begged for death, just to make her feel guilty for being the cause of his pain. Then at her weakest moment, I would dump her.
2006-11-13 23:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope she'd dump them ASAP! Once a dog always a dog....and I would feel horrible!!!!!! I'm sure thats how i would react...i've been that hysterical when I thought my BF was cheating but wasnt...
2006-11-13 23:14:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A cheater would wish he (or she) hadn't been caught. If they were considerate they would try not to be caught the next time.
2006-11-13 23:14:57 · answer #8 · answered by dano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel AWFUL!!! I mean he really hurt your friends feelings! This may leave an emotional scar on her for a LONG time.
2006-11-13 23:12:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cheer_Chic_VS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the dog NOW or regret it later.
2006-11-13 23:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋