Every single guy I've ever dated seriously gets so comfortable with the relationship that he just lets himself go and gets chubby.
I'm just curious how often this happens with the other ladies out there.
2006-11-13 15:08:50 · 9 answers · asked by cajun m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In response to the person who called me shallow -- I'm just saying that 12 out of 12 guys have started off skinny and ended up fat. Looking at the numbers alone, it's an alarming statistical trend that sparked my curiosity.
This is NOT the biggest problem; in fact it's not really even a problem at all. Just a curious trend that intrigued me. Don't be so judgmental!
2006-11-13 15:23:55 · update #1
my boyfriend and i have both gotten very comfortable..we are getting fat..its a little disgusting actually..i just signed up at a gym and im asking him to do the same before we grow out of house...i think thats pretty common ..people get used to staying in ,laying around, eating and watching tv..but we should respect ourselves a little more and take care of what god gave us..
2006-11-13 15:17:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but how shallow is that? If that is your only complaint about the guys you date then you are in a pretty good spot from where I sit. Personally, I would rather be with a guy that is a little "chubby" then with a guy who is "prettier than me." You know, that guy who spend hours in the bathroom doing God knows what and spends more in a month on bathroom products then I do in a year.
Sorry if that was harsh, but if a man posted something like this every woman on here would be all over his butt for it.
2006-11-13 15:16:22 · answer #2 · answered by Tina Y 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
cajun: I send them packing then. If he can't take care of him self now ... then, what about later ? !!! It is his job to keep himself fit as it is my job too. I meet them fit and want them to stay that way. Who needs the health problems, Dr's bills, or the prescription medicine bills ? What if he comes down with diabetes later after I marry him and can't work due to complications ... and what about the children ? !!! Fat is not where it's at !!! I don't want another "jelly belly" in my life.
2006-11-13 15:20:01 · answer #3 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it's just natural, but I think it's a sign the love you.
2006-11-13 15:12:23 · answer #4 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
in my line of men that's nothing try drugs baby mom dram drinking
2006-11-13 15:15:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've got it all wrong girl! You're spoiling your guys, by replacing their mom. By all means, guys should spoil YOU, not the other way round...........
2006-11-13 15:12:30 · answer #6 · answered by Endie vB 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
better him than you :)
seriously,it has-do something enjoyable together-hiking,biking,skiing,whatever,to build memories and shape
2006-11-13 15:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by maykithapin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, lol - you must be a good cook.
2006-11-13 15:10:23 · answer #8 · answered by LadyRebecca 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
once to me
2006-11-13 15:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋