I broke up with my gf few months ago but we remained friends, then one night we ended up in her house, her little brother went to bed and we were alone in her room. we starred at each othe then we kissed, then one thing led to another then we were in bed, we had sex several times and now we are seeing each other again.
I dont feel it's right getting back together this way but we both couldn't control ourselves that night.
I think that the problem which caused us to break up still exists but is currently supressed by the fact we just had sex.
I'm not one to have sex and leave especially when she was a virgin, but so was I. It would be wrong to say I didn't care for her and had feelings for her but what should I do in this situation ?
The sex was great BTW.
2006-11-13 15:06:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you feel you owe her something because you had sex together then work on the problem that you two broke up for in the first place. See where it goes, you just may be surprised.
2006-11-13 15:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there - I would say you both wanted the comfort of something familiar. You were once a couple so you know each others ins and outs (no pun intended) and loneliness can be covered by familiarity. If the original problem still exists, it will still be a problem until it is fixed. Your guilt probably comes from the fact that you know your not in love but your in a safe, comfortable place - it feels good now but trust me it will hurt all over again when you split a second time.
2006-11-13 23:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by warriorclan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you both were virgins had sex for the first time, did it several times that first night and it was good? Interesting!! Anyways - you should really be talking to her about this. If you feel that maybe you shouldn't be with her and it's just physical thing, then you need to let her know.
2006-11-13 23:13:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright! Guess u both r old enough to think for urselfs. Having a sexual partner OR dating partner is totaly different. Do u wish to continue this? U as a gentleman will get marry infuture, do u wish if someting like this happen to ur daughter/ sister...etc? Cos' guy wont have any losses. I believe in RETRIBUTION. Think twice ok. If u really loves her, i wish u all the best..
2006-11-13 23:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by kudos Qi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares if the sex is great or not?
If you two still have feelings for each other go out on a date again. If your problem is not sex related then it is not that of a big deal..I would say
2006-11-13 23:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex can resolve lot of problems between couples. It at least increases the capacity of the parties to tolerate each other particularly if the other has given him/her good level of satisfaction in bed.
2006-11-13 23:10:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe because you two had sex you both realized that you still have strong feelings for each-other? if that might have been it maybe this is a sine that you can stay friends, be together and solve your problems...or maybe it was just sex, **** buddy's are fun as well.
2006-11-13 23:13:17 · answer #7 · answered by nitronuke 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say: "...but what should I do in this situation ?"
Answer: Grow up. Mature people learn to control their passions and channel them in appropriate ways. You gratified yourself and did her an injustice by taking away her virginity.
2006-11-13 23:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by pilgrimchd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is the answer in the last line
at your age your not going to marry anyway , so make the best of it , there is time for many relationships with bad sex
2006-11-13 23:09:14 · answer #9 · answered by mohamed jihad dirka dirka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to resolve the initial issue
2006-11-13 23:09:24 · answer #10 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋