This is a though one.Help me! Should I get closure or just get over him?

Question

Alright, complicated story.I started hanging out with this guy at my work. Ended up having sex, started "dating" I guess you could say. He had recently broke up with his girlfriend of several years, said she drove him nuts. So we were casually seeing each other, having alote of fun, I met his family, it was great. Then after a couple of months he started getting weird and distant, long story short, he said I changed and became to attached. I had a sneeking suspicion that he was still into his ex though, cuz he had remained friends with her. I was devastated, of course. I gave him space, eventually we started talking again, started hanging out again.ok, I'm going to make this quick: had a threesome with him and his best friend, liked his friend, he got very jealous and upset, told me that he liked me so much.I felt bad,I wanted to be with him. Some time later, he gets weird again, now he's back with his ex and they are very serious. I am so hurt. He's ignoring me.Do I get over him? How?

Answer 1

Girl ur looking for love the wrong wayyyyyy. What guy says he loves u and shares u with another guy in the same bedroom . You need someone that can actually care for u and not string u along like a rag doll, getting back with u whenever he wants. You also have to understand that true love is when someone can care for someone else unselfishly and want the best for them. Its about tenderness, communication, respect, friendship. These guys will both keep using u back and forth till they are tired with u. What do u think will happen next? They will move on to teh next sex object.
Please remember that u have every right to look for love, we all do and u deserve it girl