I dated and lived with this guy for a while and we broke up and now i am living with someone else. I have never stopped loving the ex. My current boyfriend is really good to me, but I think that I am more in love with being a mother to his kids(b/c I can't have any of my own) than I am with him. I have made the decision to go back to my ex. Did I just make the wrong decision? And if I didn't, how to I make this as painless as possible. I am a very loyal person and I really feel like cow crap right now. I really need some advice bad. Someone please help me.
2006-11-13 15:04:19 · 4 answers · asked by passionate_play270 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Everytime I see a question like this, I know it's followed by some paragraph filled with gratuitous details. Wait, I just read the paragraph, and sounds like you actually have something to say!!!
That sounds complicated kiddo, but sometimes you just have to do what your heart tells you to do, and accept the consequences. Life is a series of crossroads. You have to consider everything. Whatis right by you? What is right by your kids? Are you sure its love? Or is it infatuation. Maybe you need time to yourself. to figure out what you need to do. But don't expect them to wait around.
2006-11-13 15:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by three6ty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are torn between two guys, then it is clear that neither one of they is the perfect match. i generally advise against getting back with an ex.. i think if a relationship ended, it was for a good reason, and it wasn't meant to be.. don't look back.. look forward!
maybe you should take a break from dating and be single for a while so you can have some time to yourself and you can really decide what it is that you want out of life..
2006-11-13 15:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no "wrong" decisions. If you can live with what you did, then you did what was best for you, end of story. If you choose to regret it, then I guess it will feel pretty wrong.
2006-11-13 15:11:12 · answer #3 · answered by JudasHero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WRONG DECISION DON'T DO IT PLEASE BEEN THERE DONE THAT WHEN U BREAK UP WITH YOUR EX AGAIN AND U WILL NOT ONLY WOULD YOU BE HEART BROKEN YOU WILL FEEL BAD THAT YOU HAD A GOOD GUY EVEN IF HE HAS CHILDREN. IF YOU GO BACK TO YOUR EX CONSIDER YOURSELD WARNED!!!
2006-11-13 15:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cheryl G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋