Hi everyone...?

Question

I am 7 weeks pregnet and I got mad at my husband today.He keeps saying that we are pregnet like he is carrying the baby.He told me that if i lefted him that he would take the baby a way from me. Can he do that? He is a convicted felone on a multible DUI charge.Also can he go around and say that we are pregnet? Please tell me i need to know... thanks every one for you time and patances.

Answer 1

Yes he can say we are pregnant. Many people say that, it is our way of including our husbands in this. After all, you would not be pregnant with out his sperm.

Answer 2

My husband and I, who are happily married, say that we are pregnant. You can't have it both ways- you either admit he was part of the process and will be part of the child's life, or he's not. Everyone knows you're the one dealing with the hard part of the pregnancy, no one's going to get confused that his feet are swelling or he's having morning sickness. They're just going to realize he's trying to be a part of yours, and the child's, life.

Personally, I think it's commendable that he wants to take part in the experience. Many men, including my husband in my first pregnancy, are so totally absent it's discouraging. Pregnancy gets really tough toward the end, and it's nice to have a man that wants to be a part of it. You'll want help and support and sympathy. If he's feeling a part of the process now, it's a good sign that he may be a great support for you later on.

And stop bad-mouthing your child's father. It's one thing to fight, but to attack character is a dangerous path to get on. You should stop now, before your child is here, or it will get harder and harder once you are raising your child. Then you'll become one of those people that bad-mouth's a child's father TO THE CHILD. One of the most damaging things you can do. If he's that bad, then get away now. Otherwise, start finding the positives and focusing on them, so that you are prepared to raise this child with him.

Sorry if I sound super lecturing. Just a pet-peeve of mine- pregnant women have a hard time giving the men around them a break. And, well, I'm due in three days, so I'm cranky. =)

Congratulations, and enjoy the experience! Let the other stuff go...

Answer 3

He wouldn't have a chance at getting the baby with his record. However, the two of you are pregnant. Pregnancy is very difficult on a marriage. My second and third pregnancies both were awful, I am really suprised we survived it. You are emotional but it isn't just you. You have enough to deal with being pregnant and don't want to deal with his crap along with it. So, tell him so. Appologize now and ask him to look out that it's going to get worse before better and he'd be really helpful to stay out of your way and to give some extra help and patience until the baby is born. Now, just deal with it. It will get better. Good luck

Answer 4

I think u should get happy with him. He probably is pressuring u so u won't leave him. Kind like a threat but he won't do it. Talk to him. Get some professional before this gets worse. Oh and maybe he says that both are pregnant for happiness. Also ask him to go to AA to stop his drinking habits.

Answer 5

He has every right to say WE are pregnant, but he has no right to take the baby away from you unless you are unfit.

Sounds like you need to pick better partners and learn how to spell.

Answer 6

Sounds to me like either your hormones are raging, (which is normal) or your leaving out part of the story. Don't leave because he says "we" are pregnant, sounds to me like he is excited. It's prob, the hormones. Try to relax, and pick your battles! lol. Congrats and good luck!

Answer 7

He would have to prove you are unfit. You need to make better choices in a partner.